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  Would you???

  by BlessedStar in

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  you've heard about jesus.. you've choosen to believe or not to believe.. you've accepted jesus or you haven't.. let's say jesus came down now for his people.what would you do or say to jesus if you now know he is true?

  (keeping in mind that god is the judge and some people will go to heaven and most will burn in hell!!).

  blessedstar

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  anyone have/had this problem?

  by lonelysam in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  im nearly 19, im right in the middle of leaving the borg, and i dont really know how to say this, (this is gunna sound stupid) but.. i havnt had a girlfriend for over 3 years, am still a virgin, and feel as if im never going to find the right girl for me, because i still beleive in sex after mariage.

  not to mention i dont know where i stand on the whole bible thing.

  now i know 19 is very young to be looking for a sort of 'serious' relationship, but im starting to feel a bit lonely, anyone have simalar problems after you left?

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  Did you notice all of the Newbies this month?

  by DevonMcBride in

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  2. friends

  it seems like everytime i come to this forum, which is very often during the day, there is another new person.

  i don't recall seeing so many newbies in one month as i have this month.. if you're new to this forum, welcome.

  how did you find this forum?.

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  rock solid

  by lonelysam in

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  2. friends

  hi there, does anyone have any rock solid arguments that cant be 'dodged around' by the jw's, i still go to the ocasional meeting (about every month or so) just to keep contact with my friends, (i know its crazy) but if i was to ever tell them how i feel does anyone have any good things to start with?

  like the whole un thing that happened?

  and an easy way to exsplain it?

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  Deleted Then Asked to close With Prayer!

  by Blueblades in

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  What's the most recent compliment you've received?

  by lonelysheep in

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  let's hear it.

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  Please help me, I need advice on dating a JW!!

  by Super_Becka in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok, i'm new here, so please be gentle.

  maybe the advice i need is somewhere else in this forum, but i really don't want to have to search for it, i really need some advice now and i don't have the time to sift through all of the other entries here.

  so please bear with me and share any and all advice you have, even if you think it's not what i want to hear.

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  Horrible Life - Can you help???

  by misspeaches in

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  horrible life i know you are such a talented dental hygeniest... can you help these poor critters with their teeth problems?

  may i present to you.... the alabama hunting dogs!!

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  Still on the fence!

  by acuragirl in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hey everyone i know its been a while since i posted but today i felt the need.just wanted to update you all on my position which is still brainwashed!i just dont know what to do i gain my strength to conquer this disease,(thats what i call being born in the org) from others like freedom lover who have come out of this religon free and clear i know its not easy but i know it can be done.i dont know why i just cant get over it and move on already,but theres thats piece of me that says,but what if?then im back, screwed and tatooed with jdub on my forehead,thinking that jehovah is upset and dissapointed with me and satan has me in his grasp.im stil sooo confused even with all the evidence pointing to they are full of crap!what if they arent?i just want to know the truth even if i dont choose to follow it,i want to know if jehovah is watching me torment myself every day,going back and forth and i cant take it anymore.then i think what if there is no jehovah?who the hell am i praying to with my daughter at night?

  (the air mabe)you see my daughter still believes even though she is ready to celebrate halloween this year and yes we bought her a costume,cinderella!my mother comes and takes her every now and then only if i promise to go to some meetings and i did last weekend i attended the sunday meeting for once in a about 6 months!felt strange to be there but once again going to a different cong i got love bombed.btw i feel guilty and scared about having anything to do with halloween this year.yup still dealing with the guilt,fear,agony,of knowing and believing in the dubs,for so long now trying desperately to get out without feeling the way i do.i just dont know what to do anymore and its a shame because the dubs have sucked the life out of me(guess i didnt check my doubts soon enough).if i dont get off the fence soon im going to go nuts.i like believeing that satan doesnt even exist and that there is no heavenly org.gives me peace of mind that i can just live my life,if theres a god,fine,is it jehovah?thats where the conflict arises and i cant just go on with my life thinking jehovah has lost me to the other side!

  !im not a lost cause yet guys.i need new light!

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  confused 18 year old

  by lonelysam in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hey everyone,.

  as you can see im new here, and like every new person im trying to sort alll this jw stuff out.

  i have no idea where to start, but here goes.. i first started questioning all this when 'a brother' in the congregation sexually abused one of my best friends family members, he did not get disfellowshipped, but he got publicly reproved?!

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