Welcome!
I was raised in it, and I had a really unhappy childhood. In school I was a pariah because I couldn't eat birthday cake, send Valentines cards, participate in the Maypole dance, make Easter eggs, color Santas, wear a Halloween costume (my mother made me go door to door selling magazines preaching the good news one Halloween and some lady felt so sorry for me she gave me candy.) I was mercilessly teased and humiliated. I was also bit by a dog out selling magazines in Jehovah's service. My mother would have let me die if I needed blood. Because my parents weren't influential in the cong (no MS, pioneer, occasional spotty attendance) I wasn't popular there either. I was very lonely.
I also suffered the humiliation of being the only one sitting during the assembly's National Anthem and the only one not participating in the morning Flag Salute.
I hated being a JW. I almost killed myself at age 15. When I left I was still brainwashed enough to believe that they were the truth, but I had decided that I'd rather be dead than live forever surrounded by nothing but JWs.
Your baptism as a Catholic won't count. You have to be rebaptized into "God's spirit-directed organization" (ask them to see the baptism vows you'd have to take.)
Regarding their Bible, the NWT, ask them the qualifications of the translators of this Bible. Did they have advanced degrees in Hebrew and Aramaic, attend any theological seminaries, have any Bible expertise or higher education degrees at all? They will tell you that in order not to glorify any men the translators are anonymous. Fact is they were just regular men who took the original language and changed it to fit their own unique doctrines like no trinity, etc., thus explaining the little tricks like inserting the word 'a' in John 1.1.
I just got my Masters in Communications from NYU and my thesis was on cults. (I got an A.) The JWs are a cult, pure and simple. You should read up on cults in general, not just JWs. A great place to start is Dr. Margaret Singer's Cults In Our Midst and Steven Hassan's Combatting Cult Mind Control.
Dr. Robert Lipton (a psychiatrist) has defined 8 psychological themes involved in cults.
- Milieu control ? total control of communication in the group.
- Loading the language ? Jargon that only the group understands; this language serves the purpose of constricting the thinking of the members and shutting down critical thinking abilities.
- Demand for purity ? an ?us versus them? orientation; the group is right, all others are wrong, evil, or unenlightened.
- Confession ? seemingly designed to make you feel unburdened, in reality the information you give is used against you to make you feel guilty and powerless.
- Mystical manipulation ? this is a chosen, select group with a higher purpose.
- Doctrine over purpose ? Members are taught to interpret reality through group concepts and to ignore their own experiences and feelings.
- Sacred science ? The leader?s wisdom is given a patina of science, adding credibility to his central philosophical, psychological, or political notion.
Steve Hassan, a world-renowned exit counselor and ex-Moonie, defines four more critera for cults:
- Authoritarian pyramid structure with authority at the top.
- Self-appointed charismatic or messianic leader(s), they either say they are God or that they alone can interpret the scriptures the way God intended.
- Deception in recruitment and/or fund raising.
- Isolation from society―not necessarily physical isolation like on some compound in Waco, but this can be psychological isolation―the rest of the world is not saved, not Christian, not transformed (whatever)?the only valid source of feedback and information is the group
Dr. Singer has described the mind control process:
- Keep the person unaware of what is going on and how she or he is being changed a step at a time .
- Control time and physical environment (contacts, information.)
- Create a sense of powerlessness, fear and dependency.
- Suppress old behavior and attitudes.
- Instill new behavior and attitudes.
- Put forth a closed system of logic.
How many of the above can be applied towards the JWs? I would strongly advise you to research this more before you commit.
The JWs are like the Hotel California, you can check out anytime you like, but you can never leave.
Good luck
PurpleV