I think the biggest blunder in this situation ( as well as the AAWA members who force added people ) was allowing the AAWA to continue existing for 3 weeks and waiting too long to immediately shut it down. I do not understand the justification for it aking 3 weeks to become aware of people being outed, DFEd, or having their lives be turned upside down. The AAWA president and other AAWA people were informed VERY quickly that something was wrong and awry that people were being outed- yet 3 weeks went by without action of shutting the site down to prevent further damage. And THAT was the major problem I had with it. Responsibility- or Response- ability is the ability to respond and make good, informed decisions- which did NOT happen in this case- and people suffered needlessly due to the plug not being pulled on the AAWA site sooner.
It's one reason I make damned sure that I ask each apostafest member if they want their pictures posted- or not- on my yearly Apostafest threads. I would feel awful if someone got outed if I unresponsibly posted a picture they didn't want posted on the private thread. It's also one reason it took me a week and a half to get the pictures up- I was getting personal clearance from posters to find out if some wanted pictures posted or not. That- and I have a crappy 10 year old computer in which my CD drive stopped working- but I digress.
Bottom line is that as EX-JW's we all need to realize that our personal agenda's are not more important than people's privacy or their own personal safety within their own life situations. If their cover gets blown it's not US that suffer the difficult horror stories if we have blown their cover for them - it's THEM personally who suffer from our lack of responsibility through no fault of their own ! So yes, it's something extremely serious and hopefully it never happens again on this board or elsewhere. But it probably will because certain ex-JW's have their agenda's as priority's - not other ex-JW's privacy and welfare at heart. Just my 2 cents. Peace out, mr. Flipper