Huge shock!

by Crumpet 158 Replies latest jw friends

  • Enigma One
    Enigma One

    Crumpet...oh I see how ya are now. Wanting to hug up on that darn hippie TetraGod! Shame on you. Where's my love? LOL

  • Crumpet

    my apologies enigma - see my response o thread on gay marriage - and apologies for being stereotyping you - it must be har to be judged on muscle! hehe

    get yourself a beard and a beer belly and I might just be inclined - oh and a bit more chest fuzz!

  • Crumpet

    i just want y'all to know just cos i'm being perky doesnt mean my fingers are not itching to text/ring my dad right now!

  • fleaman uk
    fleaman uk

    So sorry to read that story crumpet....jeez you always seem to get kicked in the teeth girl!

    Ive got nothing worthwhile to say (but i will add to the hugging) but please Pm me with the foulest most abusive Anglo-saxon on the planet to get it off your chest!

    Bloody vindictive,nutty religion.

    Im glad i detest my holier than thou,self righteous Parents for the fucked up upbringing i had, and have nothing to do with them whatsoever. My choice.Maybe its childish,but i enjoy the revenge of them knowing i will blank them til they die.

    They are nothing to me.

    Love ya crumpet!

  • Crumpet

    thanks fleaman.

    Maybe its childish,but i enjoy the revenge of them knowing i will blank them til they die.

    I did think briefly today maybe this was the way to go - my bf certainly seems to think so. But its just not what i feel is right for me. I've held out from replying to my dad for like 3 hours and thats painful to me. When you love someone, even if you are angry with them, its impossible to not respond to them. My dad must have immense strength of character to ignore me for so many years.

  • unbeliever

    I don't know how these dubs live with themselves. I remember when I was in this quandary before (should I respond). It was different circumstances but it was with someone I loved. I wanted to reply so bad, cuss him out what not. Now looking back I am so glad I did not respond. He e-mailed me about a month later like nothing had happened. He wanted to know how I was and what was new in my life. I did not respond to that e-mail either. Silence is the best thing you can do imo. Don't go looking for more pain.

  • fleaman uk
    fleaman uk

    My dad must have immense strength of character to ignore me for so many years.

    Thats certainly a very charitable way of looking at it Crump!Your a better Person than me.My Parents tried the whole extremely hardcore shunning thing with my Brother and it has bit them in the arse hard!No contact with Grand-kids..everything.Maybe im too vindictive.

    But hey,this is about you and i hope maybe one Day some kind of closure will occur?

    Please tell me to F off if im to nosy and you have probably already mentioned it,but do you have Children?If you do,are they totally ignored too?

  • MegaDude

    Is there any point in maintaining a relationship that is emotionally abusive year after year?

    Sometimes what you think you want isn't what you wanted at all. So you share the same basic gene pool with someone. It doesn't mean a darn thing in reality. Refuse to hang out with jerks, family or not, and you'll be happier. If you find yourself wishing to be reunited to JW family members that still shun you and treat you like crap, take a pause and remember how they have treated you and the cruel things they have done to you year after year. Take some time to really remember in detail just how they really are, how they made you feel. Those wishful feelings disappear mighty quick.

  • Crumpet

    i welcome all questions and pretty much always answer them fleman. No I don't have kids and probably won't. Thats largely down to my upbringing, but if closure comes and I am able and my heart thaws enough to allow a child in and my womb is able who knows. Won't be for a while. I have wondered if hey might try to see me if I had children, but who knows

    I've just thought of perfect revenge - i text m dad back and say hey whilst we are revealing secrets - I have 6 children! And guess what you can't see them ever unless you leave your perverted vision of truth!

  • Pubsinger

    You asked for funny ideas but your own is the funniest yet!!

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