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Are Some Enabling JWs To Treat Us Like Crap/ Showing JWs How 2 be Apostates
by cognac inare some enabling jws to treat us like crap?.
i only present this question because i realized that i was an enabler my whole life and didn't realize it.... this is why i feel this way.... i have heard a lot of "jws treat you like this because they think its right", because "they love you" "there trying to do whats right", etc, etc... these might be very true statements.. however, no matter how much they disagree with us, it is wrong to attack us personally, attack our character even if they do it because they think its the right thing to do.. family members did this to me.
i forgive them.
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Hi Everyone!
by cognac inwork has been really, really crazy lately so i haven't had much of a chance to visit.... .
did i miss anything???
missed you guys!
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Update on Husband...
by cognac inthis is really torture sometimes.... he made a run for it from this site, went out in service for 2 days and is back into full-fledge more jw.... that totally sucks... ackkk... i wouldn't care so much if he wanted to be a jw, it's just he's always pressuring me to be it also and live my everyday life the way that he wants to me to live it.
i feel like i'm being totally controlled... .
this is not going to happen like this forever.
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Never Had Strong Feelings - Did You Experience that as a JW?
by cognac inwhen i went to a funeral and i cried cause i thought it was what you were supposed to do.. went to a wedding and didn't really care, just was happy cause everyone else was.. there was just never any strong feelings, except depression of course.. but anyways, did you guys ever experience that?
no strong feelings as a jw?
now that i'm coming out, i'm noticing that i'm starting to actually get more feelings... not sure if that's a jw thing or just cause i'm seeing a phychiatrist now... however, i do notice that with hubby, no strong feelings.
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Hypnotic is with me and she said hi to everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by cognac innow, be nice to her, lol...
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Hubby s/w Mr. Flipper on the phone last night for about 1 1/2
by cognac inmr. flipper told him all this stuff about the whole pedophilia/ 1975 debacle, everything.
they talked for sooooo long... hubby really listened.. it started when i called them to talk about how to handle the elders.
then, i thought, hubby should know who i'm talking to.
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Rules from the society for d'f that the bible doesn't say you should be in
by cognac introuble for.... can you think of different rules?.
i'll start:.
no smokingno drugsno oralno swearing no clubbingtaking blood - (there were no consequences in the scriptures for taking it)watching pornnot screaming while being raped (at certain points you could be d'f for doing this)(i think you can get d'f for 3, 4, and 5).
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Told hubby I don't believe its the truth...
by cognac inhe didn't even argue with me, ok.... it's just, i didn't even realize things myself until i actually said it outloud to him... i didn't realize the depth of how painful certain things they do are.... it's like, my heart just turned warm and dropped to the pit of my stomach... i feel awful, all over again... .
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I heard they might be doing away with Auxilary's...
by cognac ini heard this from a friend of mine who has really, really good bethel connections.
keeping "pioneers" but doing away with the "auxilarys".... anyone else hear about this?.
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Anyone know of specific subliminal pictures?
by cognac inthe only one i know about is the big jesus in the revelation book.. know of any specific other ones?
i want to show hubby....