I did the same thing. When my husband first came here. I thought he was just mad at being DF'd for a 2nd time. And that after time he would be ok with everything. So when he would point out something from this website, it usually spurred me on to go to meetings more regularly.
It' is just going to take some time. Be patient.
From what I've read it sounds like hubby really loves you. And if that is a pic of him on your myspace page he is a cutie just like you.