I have some questions for you.
What if we are right? Think about it.
What if everything we say is true?
You say someone in your family was abused. What if that could have been prevented?
What if the terrible trauma that was inflicted on your family could never have happened because someone stopped the abuser before he or she got to your family?
What if the person who abused your family member was able to continue the abuse because no one stopped him?
How many victims does it take?