To scholar: re: child abuse

by Lady Lee 144 Replies latest watchtower child-abuse

  • outoftheorg
    outoftheorg

    Scholar, Tell your trash to my daughter who was molested by an Elder. She is a small person but I think she would hurt you.

    She and several other sisters told the Elders of their complaints. Watchtower legal desk told them to drop it.

    About five years later the Elders wanted to speak to my daughter again, as some more sisters had complaints now. This time he was removed as an Elder is all .

    Then another 6 or so years passed and and this Elders daughter listened to some sisters complaints and she went to the elders with this information.

    Finally after about 12 yrs. since my daughters complaint, he was df''d.

    I was angry with the Elders and told them they needed the shit kicked out of them. For that I was df'd promptly and without any delays.

    It seems that getting angry with the Elders is a much greater sin than molesting several sisters.

    Can you explain for me where the loving concern from the wbts is in this described real life experience??

    I can't seem to find it.

    Outoftheorg

  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    Hi Hill A few people were wondering where you were. I'm glad to see you.

    I have in my possession a very rare article of correspondance sent by Berlin to the Russian Front 'einstagruppen' who were weary from shooting so many people and were beginning to suffer psychiatric problems from seeing so much death and misery around them. The letter was a 'pep talk' from Himmler's office, commending them on the difficult but historically important work that they were doing in shooting children, their mothers and their grandmothers.

    I am working here on the board on a series of discussions about cults. The book was originally called Captive Hearts, Captive Minds. They state that the totalitarian methods of cults is the same thing that Nazism and Bolshevism used on followers to attain the goal of "permanent domination of each single individual in each and every sphere of life". Your letter confirms that.

    The tone of the letter was in a sinister way very mindful of your opening post and your own attempt to outline the wonders of the WTS and the reason why God must also destroy the apostate 'sub humans', and why raped children must suffer in silence ;for the better good of humanity.

    sad isn't it?

    actually scary is a better word for it

  • skyman
    skyman

    Scholar My daughter was molested and the molester has now hit the high school why becasue the congregation did nothing. My wife went to the school and apologized to the school for not letting the world know about the molester.

  • scholar
    scholar

    Lady Lee

    Indeed the Society has a policy which is designed to handle these problems in the appropriate way and it is not for you or me to try to dictate these policies and procedures. The Society can never be accused of inaction or silence when gross sin especially immorality is carried on within the Christian Congregation becaus elders are charged with the responsibility with keeping the congregation clean.

    I am glad to know that you do not believe that the Society deliberately causes acts of abuse but apostates strive to create that impression by their vile propaganda. Franz's comments on this subject were posted when this subject broke out in the media and his comments which were posted on this board indicated that he did not endorse many of the accusations made against the Society. The experience of Bowen and Anderson only serves to illustrate the folly of individuals running ahead and thinking that know best and that things should be done their way. If they were truly smart and wise they should have just prayerfully submitted their concerns and simply waited for the matter to be dealt with in the appropriate manner. Not very smart these dem poztates. Yes there are many stories but how many of these are in fact truthful and honest or have these many stories or case studies been sullied by apostate propaganda?

    If you have been damaged by abuse then you need to seek professional counselling or medical treatment and you should also receive spiritual help by means of prayer, study, attendance at Meetings with help from the local elders. All is not lost if you turn to the Lord for help.

    All that apostates have done is to stir up and muddy the waters over this issue using it as a vehicle for lies and slander, their interference has achieved nothing for victims as they do not offer any spiritual help which is the best kind of assistance for such victims. If in time current policies need to be improved then adjustments are made at the appropriate time and manner. Unfortunately, you blame the Society for your sad situation and your distress but they did not cause or bring such evil things into your life. you should focus on the criminal who assaulted and those in the world at large that encourage pornography and violence especially the Devil and his agents.

    scholar JW

  • Odrade
    Odrade

    ::: I am confident that at the appropriate time that the victim will address the wrong in a suitable manner.
    This is pretty despicable, and I'm wondering why it only got a couple of comments... You have a sexual abuser in your own family. By your comments, I will infer that the predator is not only known to you, but might possibly be a JW. Regardless of the rapist's religious persuasion, your waiting in silence until the 'victim addresses the wrong in a suitable manner' is criminal, and shows just how heartless or delusional, (or more likely both,) you are as a Watchtower drone.
    Sick, pathetic and disgusting.

  • MerryMagdalene
    MerryMagdalene

    And here we see, ladies and gentleman, a chilling example of the dangers of living in the "spiritual paradise" illusion manufactured by the Watch Tower Society and maintained at all costs by its sadly deluded loyal members, repeating to themselves ad nauseum: "all is well, nothing is wrong, our lies are truth, their truths are lies, God belongs to us, they belong to the devil..."

    I am well and truly sickened

    (((Lady Lee, Skyman, OutoftheOrg, Tex, Cruz...)))

    Hill

    ~Merry (of the almost forgot what it was like class)

    thanks for the unpleasant reminder, Scholar

  • cruzanheart
    cruzanheart
    The experience of Bowen and Anderson only serves to illustrate the folly of individuals running ahead and thinking that know best and that things should be done their way. If they were truly smart and wise they should have just prayerfully submitted their concerns and simply waited for the matter to be dealt with in the appropriate manner.

    If Jesus and his disciples had done that, the Christian congregation would never have come about. If you believe that Jesus is the Messiah, then you are following someone who DID make waves, who didn't just sit around and pray but who exposed the wrongdoing going on within the organization that up until then called themselves "God's people."

    And if you believe that Jehovah's Witnesses have "THE TRUTH" then you are part of an organization started by someone who DID make waves, who didn't just sit around and pray but who exposed the wrongdoing going on within mainstream religion. Otherwise, you'd be Jewish or Catholic.

    Now pardon me while I go throw up after reading the smug, self-righteous, hiding-your-head-in-the-sand drivel that you think passes for an intelligent response to people who have been seriously hurt by the Society's abusive actions.

    Nina

  • Big Tex
    Big Tex
    The experience of Bowen and Anderson only serves to illustrate the folly of individuals running ahead and thinking that know best and that things should be done their way. If they were truly smart and wise they should have just prayerfully submitted their concerns and simply waited for the matter to be dealt with in the appropriate manner.

    Something similar was no doubt said by the scribes and Pharisees about Jesus and the apostles. After all Israel wasn't just "spirit directed", they were "chosen people".

    Surely Galileo should not have taught that the earth revolved around the sun and instead been 'smart and wise' and waited for the matter to be dealt with in appropriate manner.

    For that matter, Russell should not have taught that 1914 was the beginning of the end as that was surely running ahead.

    Words like "apostate" or "heretic" sort of depends on whose ox is getting gored.

  • hillary_step
    hillary_step

    Lee,

    Good to see you to.

    I am working here on the board on a series of discussions about cults. The book was originally called Captive Hearts, Captive Minds. They state that the totalitarian methods of cults is the same thing that Nazism and Bolshevism used on followers to attain the goal of "permanent domination of each single individual in each and every sphere of life". Your letter confirms that.

    All organizations, religious or otherwise are sociopathic in nature. They have no conscience and their prime directive is the use of individuals within its sphere of influence to achieve its grand purpose. Public opinion serves to monitor the actions of organizations, who merely adjust themselves to suit the circumstances and then seek to ensure their survival.

    The WTS is just such an organization, but its totalitarian ideals and its ability to work outside the First Amendment make it even more dangerous than its peers. Those adherents, like Scholar, whose thinking mimics the 'company line' reflect the sociopathic inclinations of the organization as a whole. That is why you find that the most zealous JW's, those whose thinking most closely falls into line with WTS prime directive are often cold-hearted, aloof and deviod of heart. They have aquiesed their own personalities in favor of the sociopathic model being offered by the WTS as the ideal. To them, the term Christian is not identification of a behavioral pattern, as quite obviously their Christ would be repulsed by their behavior, but more a label that is worn like a party badge.

    Not all JW's are able to marry their own thinking with that of the sociopathic ideal, so they survive by constructing a world which allows them keep a spark of themselves alive in thier hearts, while appearing to mimic their masters. For these there is hope.

    Scholar, unfortunately appears to have been invaded by the humanity-snatchers and now resides in a paradise, the garden of delights, where he lounges beneath an azure sky sipping wine, and is waited on by weeping children who have been raped by their relatives.

    HS

  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    scholar

    Indeed the Society has a policy which is designed to handle these problems in the appropriate way and it is not for you or me to try to dictate these policies and procedures.

    Yup they absolutely do in it "in the appropriate way". That doesn't mean in the right way, or the most helpful way, or the in the best interests of the child way. Apprpriate way means in the way where we get to keep our reputation.

    The Society can never be accused of inaction or silence when gross sin especially immorality is carried on within the Christian Congregation becaus elders are charged with the responsibility with keeping the congregation clean.

    Yes you are right again. They are not inactive. They will do anything to make the congregation look clean and that includes sacrificing the hurts of little childran with the intent of keeping the congregation clean in appearances.

    I am glad to know that you do not believe that the Society deliberately causes acts of abuse but apostates strive to create that impression by their vile propaganda.

    Well I'm going to disagree with you here. Silence, inaction, covering up are all very deliberate acts. They have knowledge and refuse to act. And like I said previously they have failed to hand the list of pedophiles over to the authorities.

    Another statement that I disagree with. apostates strive to create that impression by their vile propaganda. Apostates don't have to create anything. They are far more honest that the WTS has ever been. The only thing they want is total honesty and safety for the victims.

    Franz's comments on this subject were posted when this subject broke out in the media and his comments which were posted on this board indicated that he did not endorse many of the accusations made against the Society.

    Wrong again. What he did not endorse was the use of the two witness rule being applied to cases of sexual abuse. What he did not endorse was the covering up of the abuse and hiding behind a policy that is absurd. Do your homework before making unfounded claims.

    The experience of Bowen and Anderson only serves to illustrate the folly of individuals running ahead and thinking that know best and that things should be done their way.

    You know what, this organization has a very long history of setting people up for abuse, beatings, imprisonment and death. All the way back to Rutherford people have become the victims of the WTS' need to prove a witness. Here is the short list:

    • Rutherford's plan to make a name for the org by sending people out preaching knowing full well that they would get arrested
    • Double standard for JWs in Mexico and Malawi - in Mexico to protect their assets and in Malawi to make a name over the persecution over a 25 cent card.
    • a blood issue that keeps changing and is built on lies and has caused thousands of people's lives
    • the emotional and psychological damage done to children who have been forced to take a stand
    • abuse issues both for children whose basic needs for safety and for adults who are abused by their spouses.

    And it goes on and on. All for the sake of making a name for themselves. How interesting that in all of these sases the WTS places it "name" and "reputation" ahead of the needs of those they are supposedly shepherding.

    If they were truly smart and wise they should have just prayerfully submitted their concerns and simply waited for the matter to be dealt with in the appropriate manner. Not very smart these dem poztates.

    It seems to me people are just really tired of knowing that not only are they victims but that it still occurrs and little children are still being sacrificed for the sake of the WT name.

    Yes there are many stories but how many of these are in fact truthful and honest or have these many stories or case studies been sullied by apostate propaganda?

    Excuse me but... I have worked with many abuse survivors. My last count (about 5 years ago) was over 600. No one - and I mean not one of them - was proud to tell people they were sexually violated. So many of them didn't want anyone to know. I was the first person most of them said anything to. This is a label that one does not take on for entertainment value. As for the JWs who have been abused my professional opinion is that if anyone has sullied the experiences it is the elders who have forced child victims to sit in the same room with their abuser and repeat every thing that was done to them. And that was done simply to determine the spiritual guilt of the abuser.

    If you have been damaged by abuse then you need to seek professional counselling or medical treatment and you should also receive spiritual help by means of prayer, study, attendance at Meetings with help from the local elders. All is not lost if you turn to the Lord for help.

    I have gotten the help I needed no thanks to the WTS. As for the spiritual help from the eelders. No thank you. For 22 years they had the chance to help and their "help" moved me to the brink of suicide. Unlike my sister and my aunt who both died because the untreted trauma was too great a burden to carry.

    All that apostates have done is to stir up and muddy the waters over this issue using it as a vehicle for lies and slander,

    No all apostates have done is bring the problem to light.

    their interference has achieved nothing for victims as they do not offer any spiritual help which is the best kind of assistance for such victims.

    Actually in the list of basic needs survival and safety come before spiritual needs. If a person is not safe and their existence is at risk then they cannot focus on spiritual needs. Basic psychology and sociology 101.

    If in time current policies need to be improved then adjustments are made at the appropriate time and manner.

    Meanwhile children continue to be put in danger of know child abusers and continue to be abused

    Unfortunately, you blame the Society for your sad situation and your distress but they did not cause or bring such evil things into your life.

    Did you read what I posted above? By their inaction and silence both my sister and my aunt were abused and eventually committed suicde due to the WTS inaction. I was seriously contemplating suicide because of the years of inaction and silence by the silence. By their inaction they allowed to abuse to continue. THAT makes them responsible!

    you should focus on the criminal who assaulted and those in the world at large that encourage pornography and violence especially the Devil and his agents.

    Well the "criminal" is dead so now I know for sure that he will never hurt another child. But because he was never reported he naturally is not a "criminal" Thanks to WT policy he was never reported.

    And I'm not sure why you keep talking about pornography and violence. In my first post to you I thought I was pretty clear that pornography was only an issue with one of those abusers and it wasn't the one who was in theJWs.

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