Mario -
What a nice treat to find a message from you.
Thank you so much for posting. I personally appreciate and truly respect your openness and honesty in speaking with us.
I am happy to learn that you have real, live people to look in the eye and talk to. An arm to touch, a hand to shake (a shoulder to cry on) are so critical to human survival. Those are things that this board cannot fully deliver for you.
I have only two things to suggest for you. They are actually simple. But may be huge.
1. Write more. You honest thoughts. All of them. If not here, than in a journal for yourself and maybe (just maybe) share with a trusted friend or counselor. If you chose to write here and want responses - you know you will get them...!! BOAT LOADS of responses!! If you just want to share with no response, maybe say so. {Not finding my right words but I think you understand the meaning. Get your thoughts and feelings out. Express them. Verbally to your support people. Manually by writing in journal, or typing in computer or typing here - with or without response from friends. Sometimes just the expression alone is powerful in the healing.}
2. Please let people - including us - know if there is anything specific that you may need. Anything. I completely understand the feeling of indebtedness. Yet I am sure that you can also imagine how absolutely helpless most of us feel. Money is easy for many of us to send. Others may have access to products you might need.
Know that we consider you family. And we are happy to help anyway we can.
Thanks again for your posting. I hope you will continue in your healing.
Hugs and more Hugs...!
-Aude.