Posts by OnTheWayOut

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No Bible = No God?

by menrov in

some doubt about the bible completely, some partially.

what if the bible turns out to be a product of humans, nothing divine.

would you still believe in a creator?.

OnTheWayOut

Also I asked before Perry - The bible says god lives in a specific place - HEAVEN. DId HEAVEN exist before god, is it co-eternal with god, did god make heaven himself, if so when did he make it? How long was he around before he made heaven? If he was COMPLETE in himself, why did he need heaven?

Hey, God exists outside of space and time so that universal laws and beginnings do not apply to him, but if it is convenient, then he has a physical place of "dwelling." If it is not convenient, it is a metaphor.

It's all so simple. Just like the Bible. It's very literal until it is demonstrated that it cannot be literal, then it is symbolic. It is scientifically accurate in its literalness until it is not, then it was speaking metaphorically.

Jesus was not "created" but is part of that Trinity....unless you refer to other scriptures that suggest otherwise, then some part of it is symbolic....depending on which doctrine Perry or others want to believe in.
It's all so simple. Where is the argument?

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Solicitors Visit Update

by pale.emperor in

in case you're not aware of my last two threads:.

the situation that arose in that my mother has been having secret access to my daughter and refusing to tell me how she is: https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/5012900121935872/am-overreacting-here.

the build up to my solicitors visit: https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/6284953638666240/solicitors-appontment-tomorrow-advice-appreciated.

OnTheWayOut

I get that your ex was probably hoping it was best for the child to simply have visits via her arrangement because she thinks it shields the daughter from the shunning issue, but it actually shields the JW's from their own shunning issue.

So good job.

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Damon Wayans

by label licker in

this just breaks my heart.

one of my favorite actors.

i wonder why he went back.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wgxx7knkwzc.

OnTheWayOut

Jehovah's Witnesses- Like Scientology but for famous BLACK people.

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Are Jehovahs Witnesses headed towards becoming one of the most controversial and talked about religions on YouTube

by UnshackleTheChains in

given the numerous videos on youtube about all the scandals and controversies of the watchtower bible and tract society.

are they headed to becoming one of the most infamous religious groups in the world for all the wrong reasons?.

OnTheWayOut

The answer was already covered but I still find it amazing that ex-JW's need the Internet and discussion so much more than other groups. You don't see as much EX Mormons discussion or videos or hardly any EX anything else on the internet. But we're still a small percentage of a small percentage of the population.

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Am I Overreacting Here?

by pale.emperor in

let's call him "dave".. dave: hello?.

dave: we dont have to tell you how she is.

dave: <her mother> has custody.

OnTheWayOut

You are not overreacting. It's very difficult, and would be very difficult on your daughter to be cut off from family she already knows, but I would seriously consider getting some court order against unsupervised visits with such relatives as they will just be trying to indoctrinate her.

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Most interesting info you've found

by Freedom rocks in

i was wondering what is the most interesting or the strangest fact you've found out since leaving the jws about:.

the bible.

god .

OnTheWayOut

It is unverifiable, but I read this and really believe it stands on its own merit:

No large group of people, including the Jews of the time, ever lived by the laws of the Bible.

All the strict rules about keeping certain holidays and setting Israelite slaves free after so many years and endless rules about cleanness and sacrifice at the temple and YADDA YADDA YADDA, all of them were written after the time when people would have supposedly lived by them, and they didn't live by them at that time.

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Starting a X-Cult support group. Any suggestions?

by Still Totally ADD in

jw
friends

mrs. add and i have seen a need in our area for this.

it all started over month ago when she gave her yearly talk on what is a cult at our local uu congregation.

their was several newcomers in the audience who have recently left the high control cults.

OnTheWayOut

Religious cult recovery is quite different from addiction. Be careful and don 't try to morph the 12 steps. Don't say that your people must declare that they are/were helpless to the cult and came to believe a higher power can give them strength or guidance.

Stick with just allowing people to say they were affected by a group or set of beliefs and desire to share with others like them. Tolerate no bullying of any current beliefs within your group, from atheism to non-Christian beliefs.

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No Bible = No God?

by menrov in

some doubt about the bible completely, some partially.

what if the bible turns out to be a product of humans, nothing divine.

would you still believe in a creator?.

OnTheWayOut

What if the bible turns out to be a product of humans, nothing divine.

What if....?

Oh, that is so funny. The jury has already returned on that issue.

The Bible actually hurts the idea that there might be a god because so many people believe it represents such a god.

No proof exists. I don't believe in fire-breathing dragons or "God" without proof. The Bible made it easier to realize that.

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Boyfriend force me to study the bible or no marriage

by MuslimWoman in

my boyfriend, who is a disfellowshipped jehova's witness, asks me to study the bible for 3 months or he won't marry me (i'm a muslim woman).

he loves me and really wants to marry me but he is doing a passive blackmailing: if i don't study for 3 months, 1 time per week, in my home country, and without him, there will be no marriage... as a muslim, i believe the bible is god's word so i look at the bible from time to time and would be happy to study with him.

but the fact that he is kind of saying "study the bible or bye bye no marriage" is really hurtful.

OnTheWayOut

I will be a bit harsh. In Islam, many many many many men treat the women as secondary citizens. Often, in America, if I see a Muslim woman driving a nice car, it is because her husband's SON is in the car. No son, then she drives a not-so-nice car. It sounds like you are going to wind up with a non-Muslim who treats you the same way many many many many Muslim men treat the women.

You can do so much better. I don't care for the Bible or the Koran, Christianity or Islam. But your boyfriend definitely wants to dictate Christianity to you. All that would make him happy is for you to renounce your faith and become a Witness and raise children according to the Witnesses ways. Nothing short of that.

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A pet peeve

by punkofnice in

a pet peeve of mine is that there are numerous christian denominations (other faiths with their 'holy' books too), all claim that their interpretation of their 'holy' book is the correct interpretation.

my conclusion is that either their god is a very poor communicator or simply doesn't exist.. i used to believe all this stuff when i was a jobo and later a church going christian.

i simply cannot, in all honesty subscribe to it all any more.

OnTheWayOut

As my willingness to examine Jehovah's Witnesses was in the early stages, I figured 'Christendom' would turn out generally more accurate with the Bible. But as time went on, I came to see that any given group can find a way to make it seem that the Bible supports anything they want it to support.

I won't take you down my trail in this post, but once I added science to my journey out of the lies, I was done with the Bible.