okie dokie, lets go into a little detail (i'm in this boat). my g/f is JW, as is the rest of her family. her mom says if we get married i'll be a lazy SOB who won't support her daughter and will treat her like utter shit, our children will become little bastards and she will fall out of favor of God etc etc. pretty much if she marries me, in the eyes of her mom and the congregation, my g/f would have throwed away all her life to live happy and we'll be a miserable couple the rest of our lives until armageddon comes along and destroys us.
thats all because i'm not baptized and because i read anything i want. if the couple really love each other it'll be hard to get through it, but none-the-less they'll get through it. i'm almost there, as people say, "i see the light at the other end of the tunnel" have fun, good luck and if you need any advice, just PM me.