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  The GB gives awakened JW's 2 choices.

  by BU2B in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  this is classic damned if you do, damned if you dont.. the choice is.

  1. be a hypocrite.

  i just came to the realization that those of us still in and who know ttatt have only 2choices.

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  sporece

  Don't know how old you are and we all understand what you're going through, we've been there, trying to please everyone in the family by faking it.

  The conclusion of the matter is since you know that the watchtower is a cult, in due time you will not be able to keep your mouth shot and eventually hell will break loose with your wife, your parents and the congregation.

  I slowly faded, my marriage fell apart after 26 years but i am free and living with a clean conscience being away from a dangerous religion.
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  JW.Org Blitz

  by Theredeemer in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i've noticed, partilcularly on instagram, a advertising blitz for jw.org by the dubs.

  primarily its the younger ones 35 and under vs older ones.

  i dont know if its just my friends or everyone but they are obsessed with jw.org.

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  sporece

  I had two of them knocking on my door yesterday and did not have much of a presentation but just encourage me to check their website.

  Easy preaching!!!!
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  Harrass them before they harrass you

  by SonoftheTrinity in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  why don't dfs who really know how evil jehovah's witnesses are just harrass them as they go door knocking so that when someone intervenes to defend them they get a balanced story about what the jehovah's witnesses are all about.

  the ones that were raised in it were raised to be anti-intellectual wusses, they aren't going to win a debate or kick anyone's ass.

  but they certainly deserve philosophical and rhetorical smackdowns, they deserve haters standing in their way as they go harrassing everybody in the neighborhood.

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  sporece

  GB is evil....they know that "Jehovah" has nothing to do with them. They enjoy being treated as kings.
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  ?? Question for those that have successfully faded/are out:

  by Darth Fader The Sequel in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  question: can any of you that have successfully faded out of the jw world without being df'd or da'd relate to me/us how you were able to maintain at least one or a few of your "still in" friends or family?

  (and even if you were df'd or da'd and still maintained some relationships, how did that go?).

  obviously, the truly demented, sick and twisted (and highly effective) policies and structure of the wtbt$ to set up a system by which anyone that chooses to no longer believe or participate must be treated as "mentally diseased" and a pariah by their own friends and family is the hands down, numero uno reason why many hundreds of thousands and possibly millions of jw's do not leave.

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  sporece

  I have faded seven years ago but he consequences are almost the same...you lose all your friends since they know you don't believe anymore.

  Only difference is when i go to the gym and see some JW they will say "Hello" to me but that's about it.
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  Noticed my old KH is using a lawn care service

  by Zoos in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  when i was still attending i almost single handedly took care of the outside grounds.

  i actually enjoyed it - gardening being a hobby.

  but i turned in the keys to the shed about three months before i made my official exit.. .

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  sporece

  Probably the lazy elders came up with the great idea that the hours mowing the grass would be more productive if used knocking on doors or standing at a corner with watchtower publications and saving lives.
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  Athiests: Do you ever wonder... what if?

  by toweragent in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'll start by saying, i'm a ministerial servant who is trapped in the religion.

  my wife is hardcore...but i've slowly been getting her to lighten up, so i'll take it!

  all my friends and family are jw's, and i am employed by a jw (who is actually a great boss).

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  sporece

  Have been Catholic and a JW for 32, left in 2007 and never look back or wonder what if there is a creator and missing out on something. If there was a creator there would not be the confucion that we see about him.

  Everything dies in the universe and on earth and so do humans.

  And by the way,for some it might be a relief to die and not be with their wife eternally.
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  what is the current procedure for moving congregations?

  by solomon in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i am moving congregations soon and what is the best way to do it.

  do you just show up in the new place and tell the elders you are new there and they will deal with it?.

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  sporece

  Just get lost and your life will be so much better. I promise !
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  Would you do this to your kids? Is this cold or am I crazy?

  by BU2B in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  my mentally in jw wife is trying to organize a "princess party" for my 4 year old daughter and her little cousins and friends.

  she was looking at prices of a tent for the backyard party in case it rains.

  she asked the hardware store how much and they said 90 dollars for the day.

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  sporece

  When ever they want to see your daughter make sure they don't. They don't deserve it. He's a real greedy prick.
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  BOE 2014-07-13 Appointment and deletion of elders and ministerial servants

  by WatchTower87 in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  2014-07-13 appointment and deletion of elders and ministerial servantsto all bodies of elders.

  the link removed by request is also available at the forms link.

  the congregation secretary should arrange for this letter to be retained in the congregation permanent file of policy letters.

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  sporece

  CO are usually broke so go ahead and sue them.

  Once again the GB throws CO and elders under the bus in order to save their ass.

  Don't you love them?
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  Update on Fading Question

  by wallievase in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  the other day i posted my delimma about dealing with family and leaving.. update: my wife came home from the hall sunday (i have now missed about 3 weeks in a row) and the elders now want to schedule a sheperding call.. should i just blow them off, or when they come over (because im sure my wife will have them over even if i decline) just tell them i cant do it right now?.

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  sporece

  Don't do it..most likely your wife arranged it since she hopes they can help you and put some sense into you.

  Since you know it's not the truth and the watchtower is a cult and will be hard for you not to say something that merits DF.

  No need to meet with them