shadow: incidentally, would you admit the possibility of error on your part as well?
In this statement, I would not ever be willing to admit error: "Jehovah, the God of the Bible, would never provide holy spirit to actively support an arrangement that is hypocritical or Pharisaical." While Jehovah did not immediately correct or punish every authority figure that stopped doing his will, he immediately removed his spirit from it. I find no scriptural exception to that rule. His spirit cannot support hypocrisy. His spirit did not support the Pharisees or those from that sect who later tried to subvert the souls of early Christians.
How about the case of David? or Peter? They both displayed extreme hypocrisy in word and deed.
Paul said that he wished such men would even get themselves emasculated. (Galatians 5:1-12) He said that such men did not recognize that we were called for freedom and that we should never "let [ourselves] be confined again in a yoke of slavery" to laws and traditions of men.
True, and I have had the same sentiment about some WT articles.
{edited to add} His spirit cannot continue to support anyone who does not fully attempt do his will, witness Moses in Kadesh. Jehovah said, "YOU must speak to the crag before their eyes that it may indeed give its water." Moses did not do just so. He "struck the crag with his rod twice." As consequence, Moses was not used to bring the Israelites into the Land of Promise. Jehovah let the Israelites get water to keep his promise to Abraham.
In spite of the flaws of the elders and other members in many 1st century congregations, I don't believe any were counseled to get out of their congregations. (Corinth, Jerusalem, Jesus' message to the 7 congs., etc., etc.)
shadow: How about a pragmatic look at this situation? You boldly speak out against what you see as error (incidentally, would you admit the possibility of error on your part as well?) and injustice. You are invited to a JC & df'd. At this point 99.9% of JW's (probably including at least some of your family) will no longer listen to you or have anything to do with you. Most other people you meet will not care a bit about what you have to say about JW's. Without a meeting schedule, your Bible study begins to fall by the wayside or perhaps you seek out another religion that will have its own version of corrupt human authority and likely fail on many points of essential criteria for God's approval such as Isa 2:4. Would you say that anyone's situation has improved enough to justify your actions? If, as a result of your actions, the faith in God of your wife and children are destroyed, would it be worth that price? Some of this reasoning could no doubt be spouted by individuals of other religions which takes us back to the necessity of endeavoring to perceive what the essential criteria are from God's viewpoint.
I have thought down this road for the last 15 years. That is what has kept me in, the inability to wake anyone else up. "Without a meeting schedule, [my] Bible study" would be much more productive and would result in my being more in harmony with the leadings of holy spirit, because I would not have to waste mental energy correcting the wrong thinking presented in the material being considered. Most Witnesses don't do Bible study. Most don't even do WT Publication Study. They do WT Publication Reading with the aid of a few partially quoted verses from the Bible. Or they may hastily look up a verse or two at the meeting.
That's great. I must admit that in my own case, the pressures of life and the opportunites for diversion would probably result in a lessening of the time I devote to Bible study. As far as the meetings go, certainly many times much of the time is spent reading some article or book and then repeating the same statements two or three times, then going on to the next paragraph. Personally I find that my more critical outlook has sharpened my attention to really think about what is being discussed. As in most endeavors, it really is largely up to the participant as to how much benefit they derive. I know some have been in the TMS for decades and, judging by their talks, must have never attempted to actually understand anything about being a bettr speaker. On the other hand many have gained skills that rival or excel a secularly trained speaker.
I'm sure you know that is a problem addressed by every CO, but the response has been to dumb down the literature even more. This makes me think it is not seen as a "problem" at higher levels. Bible reading is stressed, while Bible study should always be along with the publications provided by the Faithful and Discreet Slave (see paragraph 11 in this past week's study article) to keep anyone from the sin of "harbor[ing] private ideas."
This is obviously contradictory and just as obviously not always complied with. If no one ever had a 'private idea', we would still be using Studies in the Scriptures.
"Would you say that anyone's situation has improved enough to justify your actions?" If I were DF'd? Yes. Mine. Each person has one relationship with God to think of - first and foremost. No one else's relationship is totally dependent upon me. In my opinion, that is not selfishness and I think it is unkind of you to paint it as selfishness. Unless that is part of how you cope, in which case, I don't consider it unkindness but I would consider it at least a little self-deluding. Understandably self-deluding, though.
You make some good points here, but allow me to play the Devil's advocate. Perhaps a writer for the WT feels similarly. 'Yes, that article I prepared was really bad and misguided, but it was up to the reader as to how to respond to it.'
I have considered fading. If I fade away, no one would be restricted from talking to me and I would have access to elders, as a "weak one," to ask questions of them. As a weak Christian, I would not be held to as rigid a standard as a mature Christian. If I am inactive and not attending meetings I will automatically be viewed as weak without ever saying a word to that effect. They would form their own conclusions and then anything questioning that I say would just reinforce that preconception.
Perhaps that is a viable option, naturally you would have to judge your own circumstances. I truly believe that there is no easy solution for someone who really wants to serve God and are there not many scriptures that tell us to expect a struggle?
shadow: the faith in God of your wife and children are destroyed
If her faith was that weak to begin with, did I do what a spiritual head should do? Did I really encourage her and help her place her confidence and assurance on solid ground? If not, could my leaving possibly be destructive to something that was never really present to begin with? I think we have much in common, but I am getting the feeling that you would recommend I play by the rules inside a system you admit is corrupt (diseased, plague-ridden) while every bone in my body daily screams, "Quit touching the unclean thing!"
Some rules don't really bother me all that much. Take beards for instance. Certainly seems to be some Pharisaical thinking evident on that, yet I don't really consider it to be a 'more important thing' (Php 1:10). However I think some have stumbled over this and in those cases I would be like Paul (2 Cor 11:29).
Shadow, obviously you do not mind "harbor[ing] private ideas" that conflict with Governing Body doctrine. I respect you very much for your willingness to help me cope with what you know is a very difficult situation. So I would like your personal opinion.
Do you think John 13:34, 35 is fulfilled by an organization, or by individuals?
Individuals, with the caveat that a group of individuals can manifest certain traits in a collective sense though stemming from the traits of the individuals.
Do you believe that "the righteous ones" mentioned in Proverbs 4:18 refers to an organization or individuals?
Possibly both as mentioned above.
What about "the righteous one" of Psalm 97:11?
Individuals, some of whom have at times been in a position to share it with others through means such as the WT, which at the same time has admittedly contained Pharisaical ideas as well.
Does Psalm 119:105 apply to the feet (plural) of an organization, or to a roadway provided by an organization?
Same as above.
Who is "the light of the world" in Matthew 5:14, an organization or individuals?
Individuals who may form themselves into a group with some organizational structure, whose authority structure may then become tainted with typical human flaws.
Applying the Genesis 2:7 rule to Matthew 5:14, do I have light or am I light?
I think we are all composed of light and dark. Even an atheist involuntarily honors Jehovah by the miracle of his existence and thus is a small source of light. Jesus followers would shine much more brightly.
I feel I am currently under a measuring basket and have felt that way for a very long time. I feel cramped for room. If you don't, I am eager to know how you cope. Is it by the mental tricks you recommend here? Is there more to it than that? Do you believe this is God's organization for the salvation of mankind, that they are truly faithful stewards of sacred secrets? (1 Corinthians 3:2)
No, I am definitely somewhat cramped. I don't believe that I have written anything in our discussion that is contrary to the scriptures, yet I am not so foolish as to use my real name. That is a sad state of affairs, yet the time for something better does not yet seem to have arrived. In the meantime I will go along with the program until I am confronted with a situation that I do consider to be one of the more important things and forced to take some action, at which point I expect that I would be deleted or df'd, depending on the situation. There are not too many situations that would put me in those circumstances and may never come up. In the final analysis we all must render an individual account to God (Rom 14).
Consider JW organization against the backdrop of what other religions offer. Would you not admit that there are some pertinent differences that fall in the favor of JW's?