LA u may have offended French, but u are not wrong. I have been in therapy for years and worked in psych area, and women do have rape fantasy. Not of rape that involves being actually brutalized rape, but of being forced to have sex. so perhaps forced sex is a better way to put it. Therapists say it a way of not assuming the blame for sex-somone forced u. Also, it makes some women aroused.
as far as the 14 yr old boy, that woman was wrong to do that. he is a child and she used him. She is his teacher, and clearly wrong. If that had been my son, i'd have beat her arse for touching my son. men have feelings too, and can be just as traumatized as a girl. Ok the boy may have been fantasing about her, but just like the forced sex fantasy-it is just fantasy, and not menat to be actually done. I hope they throw the book at her, can we not even send our children to school without a pervert molesting them?