B*st*rd, F*cking B*st*rds!!!!!

by LittleToe 131 Replies latest members adult

  • arrowstar
    arrowstar

    (((Ross)))

    I'm so sorry.

    Lisa

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    LT,

    Sorry to hear of your family woe. Makes one feel like calling parents the parental unit instead of parents, plain old parents.

    Crying releases natural tranquilizers and anger is a necessary step in acceptance and healing. This too shall pass. By the time the wedding arrives you will have found a comfortable way to deal with this. Putting humor to it helps, too. When life hands you lemons, make lemon-lime frozen margaritas. You might even want to make your sister's a double.

    You'll feel better when you wake up. Sleeping on it always helps. Sleeping on it for two months worth of nights will help even more.

    Heather

  • Narkissos
    Narkissos

    (((( Ross ))))

    I'm really sorry about that. I haven't been successful with my JW family, but every story is different. Whatever happens in this circumstance, your sister and you are building a strong relationship outside, to which your parents may eventually relate when they change their minds. It's good you are able to keep in touch with them.

    Take care,

    Narkissos

  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    Ross

    When my mother refused to come to my daughter's wedding because I was there I was livid. My girls were never baptized and left while they were still kids. It was her way to punish me for being an apostate. God forbid she be in the same room with me.

    She can avoid me all she likes but my daughter didn't deserve that.

    We all went on without her. And since then she has missed every important occasion. I didn't invite her to my wedding 2 years ago. Just didn't want to hear her say no. And my daughter who is getting married in two weeks hasn't even invited her. She doesn't want to deal with this crap either.

    A wise young woman her response is that she wants people around her who love and support her and the groom. My mother doesn't even come close to that.

    Sadly it sounds like your parents don't either.

    Stand there for your sister and be proud of the woman she is

  • Smyler
    Smyler

    James 5 12 Above all, my brothers, do not swear--not by heaven or by earth or by anything else. Let your "Yes" be yes, and your "No," no, or you will be condemned.

    I guess most Witnesses don't live by that scripture...

    ((Ross))

    I hate reading shunning stories! I find it so... unloving for someone, especailly a family member to shun their son/daughter etc! But I'm sure that their wedding will go fine!

    Best wishes!

    smyler

  • plmkrzy
    plmkrzy

    (((HI ROSS!))) Sorry you're going through this right now. It really sucks when our folks lose their

    eye-site...per'sa My dad gave me away many years ago before the "society" had so many rules and regs about "how" to associate with your loved ones. BUT, I can relate because the next time I got married my dad wouldn't even come to my wedding. I still cried about it because it hurt just as much.

    I didn't even bother to ask him if he was coming to the third one.

  • xenawarrior
    xenawarrior

    Wow Ross !!

    All I can add is another "I'm sorry " to all of this.

    oh and...............

    breathe in, breathe out, breathe in, breathe out !!

    Hope it all works out okay.

  • Big Tex
    Big Tex

    LT, I'm so sorry. Why is it we are often so nice and kind to strangers and so cruel to those closest to us?

    I wish I could make it better for you, and especially for your sister. Remember, the best revenge is a life well led.

    Give your sister a big Texas hug and howdy for me.

  • Sassy
    Sassy

    Yeah I want to add how sorry I am too.. I think it is a good idea to show her this thread.. help her understand that others understand..

    My mom wouldn't go to my sisters wedding either.. If I get married now in the forseeable future, mom won't attend mine either.. or my best (er ex best) friend.. It hurts.. unfortunately..

    But we have to find a way to enjoy these special moments in our lives any way..

  • darkuncle29
    darkuncle29

    I saw the topic title and thought for a moment that they killed Kenny.

    I'm sorry. Your hurt is our hurt.

    I still am hopefull for your sister's big day. She does still have you. As for her wedding day being in ashes, the Pheonix rises from its own ashes.

    You're all in my thoughts.

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