Hello. I met a wonderful man on Match.com several months ago. On our first date, there was amazing chemistry and we ended up having sex. It was not planned, it just happened. I am Christian. His dating profile said he was christian. Later, I found out he was Jehovahs Witness.
We have been dating for six months. I asked him if I was his girlfriend and he told me "I love you. You are my best friend. But I don't think a marriage would work between us. I don't want to ruin what we have by making this a relationship."
I told him I wanted to end it and he refused. He wants to keep seeing me and spending time together. He texts me all day and we see each other once a week.
Soon after that, he gave me a booklet on his beliefs and he wants me to start meeting with his mom and another female JW to discuss the contents of the book. Honesty, many of the things in the book are similar to my beliefs and a few things are different (But those are BIG things).
I can't tell if he is interested in something potentially longterm and is waiting until I accept his religious beliefs OR if he is not interested in a future and is just having fun with me. If he is interested in something that could be longterm, I will continue seeing him, meet with his mom and find out what his beliefs are really all about.
If he is just having fun with me (place filler) I will end it.