Once again, you dismiss every other person who spoke in her defense and focus upon me. Why?
You try to 'break it down for me', but perhaps you should accept that I do not see it as you do. Truly do not. Because I think you are wrong. I think you can't see. But you know what... that's fine. I don't have to make you see. You don't need my approval, and I don't need your approval. And you had stopped enjoying conversing with me regarding faith long ago, and it had nothing to do with Shelby. You thought I was dishonest, played games, and such.... long ago.
Shelby has been my friend for a long time, and not just on this board. She is a dear woman who has helped me in my personal life with absolutely no regard for anything in return. She doesn't even know how much she has helped me, and I do not just speak in regard to matters of faith. I could absolutely disagree with her (if I did in truth), and she would never turn away from me for it. Never think badly of me, never withhold her love.
I love Shelby. Dearly, and truly. Hers is a love that will not fail, and that is not an easy thing to come by in this world.
Peace,
Tammy