Moshe is still spouting his same old tired "doormat" doctrine...not even apparently aware that people come in all shapes and sizes. One size does not fit all.
I stand corrected on the elder showdown. Most people get tired of being a doormat for JWs, ie, humiliated, the cold shoulder, etc,, then after a couple years they crack and they want some R-E-S-P-E-C-T. I am learning all the time just how much abuse people are willing to take from the WT org- if this was anything but JW shunning- the public might call this disfunctional codepenency - I never dreamed there are faders who will let JW family humiliate them for seven or more years- it's an open-ended contract, as they will never get all their family to quit the KH, so the fade must go on, until death do we part.
-"Codependency, by definition, means making the relationship more important to you than you are to yourself," -- "It's kind of a weird phrase, and it doesn't sound like it means a one-sided relationship. But that's what it is. It means you're trying to make the relationship work with someone else who's not,--"
Ultimately, the faders who let other JWs treat them like a doormat are only hurting themselves, by not demanding respect and allowing others to abuse them in the name of God.
Even a school child knows what needs to be done with JW bullies- stand up and speak out against WT abuse, shunning and bullying.