This is the way I see it:
I am a mother of four children, one of whom is a girl of 12 years. If my daughter, God forbid, came to me and told me that she had been molested for a number of years the first thought directed towards my daughter that would go through my mind would not be "Why didn't you call CPS?" My first thought would be "I'm gonna kill the bastard" and then after I calmed down (as if that would be possilble) I would call the cops.
I would never ever blame my children or any other child for not going to the authorities. I would blame the sick **** for having the nerve to touch my child and thinking that they were going to get away with it.
I really don't believe that you're a mother like you've claimed on this board Alice.