So What Do You Think About Sex ? (page 7)

RR

Well, I'm married, so I don't have sex.

RR

FlyingHighNow

Well, I'm married, so I don't have sex.

That shouldn't stop you. Nawww.

cognizant dissident

Oh, I thought we had scared off Mr. Flipper with our sexy talk, but he was really just gettin "busy".

Cog

ps: Does Simon know you are using his forum as foreplay, Mr. Flipper. Doesn't that violate some posting guideline or something?

avishai

I'm a virgin.......... ...............in my left ear...

Cog Dis-I know what works physically-and he knows, but don't care except for his own part. . .and a toy can't give you all the rest of it. I can take care of myself(and do!), or I could get someone else for the good sex part. It is the mental/emotional part combined with the physical part. I want the whole package, but if I could only have one or the other, I'd have the mental/emotional and take care of myself altogether and not even complain (some people have to, right?)

We are getting along better on a lot of other levels though, maybe this one will start to work its way into our lives a bit. Or at least so that we are no considered a sexless marriage (less than once a month). 2x a year and not even fun. We can only improve or forget it.

Sometimes I wonder if I should just keep trying and hoping (and being rejected or simply used). But it makes me kind of mean and resentful and it doesn't really improve anything. It only makes me feel self righteously inclined to adultery and I'd rather bank the fires than ignite them in the wrong place!