It's called loss of libido and can be traced to aging, alcohol, anti-depressants and various underlying health issues. Don't give up. Try not to think about the mechanics of the sex, think about making love to a loving mate. If a little naked wrestling is all that happens, so what? Concentrate on making her happy and you will be fine.
So What Do You Think About Sex ?
by flipper 197 Replies latest members adult
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cry
It's a known fact that you have to use it or lose it! Solo or not, you have to keep the equipment in order, even when you don't feel like it.
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leec
I had heard that anti-depressants dulled sexual feelings, but didn't think much of it until I got off Prozac last month, after about 7 years on it.
I mean ... I thought I was just having less/fewer of those feelings due to age, but after getting the Prozac out of my system, I can very safely say that, if there is an age where those feelings die out, I'm no where near it yet.
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jacquicortez
ok flipper i'm not a virgin, but it would be kinda cool to start all over.
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flipper
Wow. Checking my archives I hadn't realized this thread had been bumped up and replied on a couple weeks ago. I'll reply.LOL!
LUO BOU TO- It could be some physical problem that a medical doctor could assist you with . Many times some anti-depressant medication can affect a man or woman's ability to achieve an orgasm. So it might not be a psychological issue, but just physical . I wish you luck.
IN- You're a young dub? I bet you ARE looking forward to sex then. Witnesses really repress sexual desire in members.
FINALLY FREE- I hear what you're saying, There are so MANY distractions that can interupt sex and the thought processes that go into having sex. In my JW marriage of 19 years ( ended in 1998 ) I got only 1 BJ in 19 years. And she felt guilty as hell about doing THAT ! So we definitely were not suited well for each other sexually. JW marriages really sucked. Been there, never doing tHAT again.
SAM WHISKEY- I liked all 3 Austin Powers movies. I have all 3 on VHS still.
GREGOR- Yeah, naked wrestling is good. My wife and I have done that sometimes ! LOL!
CRY- I agree, you have to use it or lose it ! VERY important to keep the equipment in good working order ! Also - I've heard staying active sexually by cleaning your pipes out helps men in middle age avoid prostate cancer. Hey, I'm all for that !
LEEC- I'm glad things are going better for you after getting off Prozac. Orgasms are great for sure. I hope you have a different form of med that will assist you with depression though. One that will still let you orgasm.
JAQUICORTEZ- Well, I'm glad you're not a virgin. Starting over would be good- but personally I enjoy that I'm very experienced sexually in a knowledge way because there are so MANY different ways a couple can please each other ! So with experience comes increasing pleasure actually
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StoneWall
So What Do You Think About Sex ?
I think:
Sex is natural,sex is fun.
Sex is best when its one-on-one. (Lyrics shamelessly taken from a song some years back)
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flipper
STONEWALL- Hey ! We have a poet here ! LOL !
O.K. I'll appease the poet in you. Here's mine.
Sex is natural, sex is fun.
Sex is best with my hon.
There, now I'm done, rack me
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flipper
Saw this salty thread on sex from years ago. Really great replies on here so I thought " what the hell " I'll bump this back up. We were never allowed to openly discuss sex much among others in the congregations. So give us your thoughts ! Peace out, Mr. Flipper