My Andy was in a bad car accident~ (page 27)

Dansk

(((((((((((FHN)))))))))),

So glad you're in an upbeat mood today - and long may it continue. You deserve all the happiness you are experiencing.

Ian

The CPS worker told us if our foster care license isn't revoked, maybe. But she is Michigan and not Connecticut. I have been to grief stricken to speak with Connecticut since the 23rd. I think I will be strong enough this week to finally speak with them. They all know how happy Mickey was here. I will let all of you know what the news is on that front.

Thank you, Dansk. It's good to be feeling a bit better. I was pretty worried about myself for a week or so. I hope things are going well for you and yours. I need to catch up on the latest about your match being found. Hugs to all of you.

Sad emo

Great news about Julian (((FHN))) here's hoping the other bad events of the past weeks start to turn around now.

Stay strong in the Lord

Sassy

FHN.. my heart goes out to you and all that you guys have been going through. I am so glad you havea light in the silver lining in regards to Julian

GoingGoingGone

(((((FHN))))

I haven't replied on this thread before because I have nothing helpful to say. But I wanted you to know that I've read every post, and I think of you all often and I'm so glad that things are going better for the time being!

GGG

bebu

WOW, FHN, that is great news to hear! Please explain what this means, though, that Julian's case will be closed. Does this mean that you will be granted permanent guardianship? Or does it mean that she is not going to pursue having him taken from your home? The POA thing... I think you told me (or wrote in a post on this thread--my memory leaks) that it was part of the process of getting custody. Is that right?

BUT I owe you a great apology. I have been less than available to you, due in part to some emotionally draining relationships I am working with IRL. But this morning I woke up at 3:30 and all I could think about was how pitifully little I've been able to help you recently. Really, I have appreciated Juni so much, giving you words of encouragement at the moments you needed to have a person respond. I am so glad she--and so many others who won't let the right hand know what the left is doing -- stepped in.

AND I am relieved to know that our combined efforts have made a practical difference for you. I really, really was grateful to hear that many people have helped hold you afloat. I know that it is hard for anyone to trust that someone s/he's never met is going to be responsible with a monetary gift, but I hope that the difference that it has made for you so far would help anyone who would like to maybe offer a one-time bit of assistance. Even $5 is helpful, but I think it's a nice challenge to give more (FOR THOSE WHO WOULD LIKE TO!!!!). I'd like to see FHN get stabilized, and she's working out how to work/get assistance/get care for Julian, keeping up her part.

Anyway... It is wonderful to know that a very large bit of pressure is lifted, and I hope that can help you feel able to pursue the best paths for work/job hunts so you can smooth into a better long-term situation.

God bless.

bebu

bikerchic

((((((FHN))))))

Great news about Julian! I'm also glad to hear Andy's SSI process is getting started, it does take time hang in there!

I'm glad the CD has been of help, use it when you can. She does warn you that you may have a reaction after listening to it, I know I did it was, umm....well I got over it and a much needed cry to boot. It's all good! Just warning you it may happen to you, may not?lol

You are forever in my thoughts and I'm forever thinking positive vibes for you and 'da boys!

FlyingHighNow

Just want everyone to know that I finally felt strong enough to call Connecticut. I had a good, informative talk with Mickey's caseworker. I will write you more about it later. I have a trip to make to deliver Julian's good news in person. Mother Val said he should know as soon as possible and the camp will not let me talk to him on the phone. The health director said it would be best to tell him in person.

I will say Mickey is living on a real farm with horses and other animals. I'll tell you more later. Thank you, everyone. I feel some mixed emotions coming on. But I am much stronger than last week.

GermanXJW

Please take my best wishes that things may turn out better. Sorry for not finding better words. :-( It is so sad that one day can change everything.

juni

Just popping in FHN to catch up on the latest. Wow! Sounds like things are starting to turn around. The meds that you are on will help you a lot so that you can think straight and get the job done....you've been so strong through all of this.

Others help, but you've done all the hard work! Isn't unconditional love great?

I send my love to you and the family and a tickle for the little hamster "what's his face", Juni

My Andy was in a bad car accident~

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