My Andy was in a bad car accident~

by FlyingHighNow 471 Replies latest members private

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    Thank you all for your kind words and concerns. We can use all your prayers, meditations, good vibes you can all muster. I work a flexible schedule that includes weeknights and weekend nights. That makes it a bit more difficult to find a sitter in a pinch. The county will pay for the five year old's care, but it will take time to set this in motion. I am hoping my employer will let me take leave to care for all these matters and give me some relief to make these sad decisions. If I take personal or medical leave, I won't get paid. If my doctor can do it, I might get short term medical disability since I suffer from panic disorder and post trautmatic stress syndrome. It wouln't be a lot of money, but hopefully enough to pay my insurance premiums and a little left over. Please pray that Doc and do this for me. It would be one less worry.

    Andy's car:

  • jaguarbass
    jaguarbass

    Hugs, and I wish you the best.

  • J-ex-W
    J-ex-W

    (((((((((((((((((((((( FlyingHighNow )))))))))))))))))))))))))

  • stillajwexelder
    stillajwexelder

    Jesus -he is lucky to be alive - seeing the car - thank God for that

  • misanthropic
    misanthropic

    I'm terribly sorry to hear this. I hope everything will be OK, my thoughts are with you. (((((((((FHN & Andy))))))))

  • delilah
    delilah

    FHN, I'm so sorry that this has happened to you and your loved ones. I pray that your doctor will help you out here,and that everything will be all right very soon. I hope Andy has a full, and speedy recovery, and will be back home with you and your grandsons before too long.

    Delilah

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    Dear FHN

    I know this will all work out for you, it has to be so difficult. There are times when raising my five kids, I did not think I could do it, but there was always a way to make it happen.

    Please let us know at the board what we can do for you.

    purps

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    I don't know if I have posted about Andy's anxiety problems. He has had them for over twenty years. All of this was overwhelming for him as it was, before his accident. He tried so hard to help us. He wasn't able to work much for the past couple of years and instead cared for the children and house for me. At least now they have found some meds that work for him and he is optimistic about leading a fuller life when he recovers.

    It's true about caregivers. I have carried so much and been the backbone of the family. Caring for Andy, caring for the kids....it's been almost too much. Then this has happened. There are a lot of sad details I cannot share publicly. This is only part of it.

  • Spectre
    Spectre

    This saddens me.

    I hope you and Andy are doing well and it all works out for you.

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    Thank you, John Kay.Your avatar can always give me smile, even if a very sad, weak and weary one.

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