I think my bio sums up my feelings quite well (especially the bold, red print):
They drill into your head that you will die at Armageddon if you make human mistakes until you go to them for help and healing, and then they cut you off from everyone you know, make an announcement about your evil unrepentant ways, and teach everyone around you to shun you and think bad thoughts about you, then make you jump through hoops for years in order to reinstate your good standing. All for going to them as shepherds for help, help for making mistakes, help for being human. I jumped through all their hoops. I played by all their rules. I did what I was told. I didn't ask any questions. I minded my own business. I thought Jehovah forgave me when they deemed me worthy of being one of them again. They say God will handle everything in due time and to wait on Jehovah. After they committed a serious injustice to another family member, I decided I could no longer live this way and that the only winning move was not to play. And I walked away.(Baptized 1997, disfellowshipped 2001, reinstated 2001, reproved 2002, disfellowshipped 2003, reinstated 2005, done with stupid mind games 2006.)
Does that answer the question? I'm done with stupid mind games. Are they done playing them? Didn't someone else say "when pigs fly?"