Don't you 2 gays I mean guys --- flirt on my thread!
Would You Not Be Friends With Someone Because They Are Gay?
by minimus 165 Replies latest members adult
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littlerockguy
Minimus:
Flirt? FLIRT?!! You didn't know LT and I were an item?
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minimus
Yeah...I heard. Affectionately LT changes a letter in your moniker, from what I've heard. He gets his r's and c's mixed up.
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LittleToe
Little Cork Guy?
Now that just doesn't make much sense Minimouse!
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HadEnuf
As long as they like me even though I'm fat...sure...I like people who are who they are (unless they are cruel, dishonest, hypocritical, unloving, etc...oh yeah...those were many of the JW's I knew)...and make no excuses for who they are. yup. ah ha.
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Utopian Reformist
Since we have deviated and are all over the place with this thread, I wanted to share some thoughts.
I mentioned two very close friends from work who were openly gay. We ate lunch together so many times and when I had to work late (all night migrations and upgrades during long weekends) one of my friends would ask me to stay at his apartment across the street from the federal courthouse.
Obviously, we used to stay up all night talking. He said I could ask anything because we really were friends. So, I just had to ask what the hell was the attraction to men anyway? I told him I thought men were grotesque, sweaty, smelly, uncouth, filthy, most of the time and I also hated the hairy bodies.
Well, my friend ignored the question and put me in my place. He said he knew what I really wanted to know was about the sex. Why would another man choose sex with men over sex with women, and what was the major difference or benefit? He was right, so I got a lesson I will never forget.
He said that the male prostrate gland and it's contact and friction with the male organ is incredibly stimulating and pleasurable. He said it was the main reason that male/male intercourse was better than male/female intercourse according to men who had experimented/experienced both types of pleasure.
So, supposedly, I now understood why so many wanted to be "bottoms". That is the extent of my education concerning sexual behavior amongst gay men. At first, I thought I could not handle such a conversation and would become paranoid, but, I survived and it was just a conversation among two close friends!
I am still comfortable with myself and so are my two friends and we still stay in touch and love each other (agape / filia). -
daystar
He said that the male prostrate gland and it's contact and friction with the male organ is incredibly stimulating and pleasurable. He said it was the main reason that male/male intercourse was better than male/female intercourse according to men who had experimented/experienced both types of pleasure
Is that all? I mean, a gal could, you know, stimulate it with her finger. I mean, I know what he's talking about, but that doesn't make me want to have sex with a man. I enjoy the soft curves, the feminine noises, the smells...
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dedpoet
One of my very best friends is gay, and I don't really think about his sexual preferences, just our friendship
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juni
My workmate was gay and a very sweet lady. We still keep in contact. For women you can always feel "safe" with a gay guy and have a lot of fun. I personally don't care as long as they treat me with respect. Juni