Joel----THAT'S the test?? Listen, if I got an erection from smelling a man or hearing his voice, then, yup, I'm gay. Your "test" has one basic problem. Not all effeminate men are gay.
Would You Not Be Friends With Someone Because They Are Gay?
by minimus 165 Replies latest members adult
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joelbear
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PaulJ
Paul, wanna take some calculus?
Or maybe we could integrate. Im hot on DY by DX...
Thats way over my head, but it sounds sexy! I can just about manage algebra tho.... maybe all is not lost.
If Mary has 6 Oranges in one hand and 9 Oranges in another, what has she got?
Huge hands!
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Big Tex
Tex, you go girl!!!!
>nervously checks under kilt<
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minimus
Joel, I know you didn't. But the "test" suggests that what your "gaydar" tells you. Tilting your head, certain "gay" mannerisms---is what your test(es) involves, right?
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PaulJ
Just a thought i have on this. Do overy overly camp gay men annoy you? I know a few in the town where i live and they are fun to be around but after a while its just plain annoying. Am I gay bashing now?
For example- Will and Grace- Will is cool, I like him. The other guy tho thats always flapping like an idiot and clapping his hands- GGGGRRRRRHHHHH WTF is he all about???
Paul of the wants to understand class
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ohiocowboy
I have no problem with gay people at all...In fact, my Boyfriend is Gay!
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Utopian Reformist
In my opinion (based partially on external experience, interactions, media), it is no longer possible to haphazardly categorize effeminate behavior in men as a definite indicator of being gay.
Times have changed for EVERYONE (including gay community). I have met people of every persuasion and orientation, and everyone in between. YES, sometimes, the typical stereotypes we learned years ago can still be accurate, but not in all cases.
You really have to just let go of judgments and just get to know people and enjoy their positive characteristics without requiring or having to know what their status/orientation is, it's just not necessary.
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katiekitten
Do overy overly camp gay men annoy you
Yes, I think that effeminate voice is put on, and all that hand flapping.
And no, I dont think it is gay bashing. I also hate that pretend black gangsta talk aswell. Who really talks like that in real life? Do they HONESTLY go home and talk to each other in that aggressive pretend offended 'talk to the hand cos the face aint listening; way? How do they manage to communicate that they dont want baked beans on toast tonight? Do they have to be pretend offended about the beans? Its all SUCH hard work.
Please poeple, speak normally.
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minimus
I don't like female impersonaters because of the "campiness".