by logansrun 82 Replies latest social relationships
Ladies,
In preperation for a class I'll be taking starting next month entitled "History of Love, Sex and Marriage" I would like to probe your heart's desire to find out the 5 biggest turn on's and 5 biggest turn off's you find in men. And well, hell, I also would just like to add to my general knowledge.
Try and limit your responses to five answers for the turn on's, and five answers for the turn off's. Any general comments are also appreciated!
B.
......are you the editor for ''Reader's Wives''?....
ok seriously....
Ons - Intelligence, wit, humour - physically -Thighs, Lower arms
can';t think of any ''offs'' as I have a specific person in mind.
I'm in a funny mood so I'll bite:
Turn Ons:
1. Clean body - hubby smells so incredible after a good shower
2. Alcohol - hubby doesnt drink often but I find that after he has a drink the smell of it on his breathe...good lord!
3. Clothes - hubby looks mighty good in his Levi's
4. Movement - hubby is a good dancer, he has all the right moves
5. Not so strange - when hubby mops the floor
hm do I have to do the turn-offs too? I'm a bit turned on
An example from some of my reading:
Turn On's
Reliability
Considerate and warm
Fun
Good looking, "buffed"
Honest
Turn Off's
Stereotyped expectations about women
Egocentric
Materialistic, "money-hungry"
Dishonest
Sarcastic
Oh we got it wrong Logansrun? Are those the correct answers?
Turn ons
1. scruffy goatee mmmmmm
2. glimmer of mischief in the eyes
3. nape of the neck and muscular arms
4.that slightly sweaty glimmer and smell post workout.
5.sense of humor is a must and probably should have # 1
Turn offs
1.closed mind
2.mean spirit
3.the good JW boy haircut
4.overbearing
5.excessive body hair, you know the kind where you can't see their skin @ all
Damselfly
That's just an example of what one woman said. There are no right or wrong answers.
B.
Memo to Mrs Jones - don;t leave me alone with Mr Jones - he sounds lovely! LOL!
I can;t really answer this - I mean I find honesty attractive but it doesn't physically trun me on. Maybe you need to divide the survey up into menatl/emotional turn ons and physical turn ons.... or maybe I'm just thinking too hard!
At one time the "cleanshaven, short hair cut" look was in. Would the ladies say that the "scruffy, surfer dude at the beach" look is more fashionable?
B
Turn On's
Reliability - he comes every time
Considerate and warm - always is considerate of my needs (lets me you know what first ) and is great to cuddle with
Fun - makes me laugh
Good looking, "buffed" - oh yeah nice body too
Honest - tells me he honestly loves me quite often
the turn offs have turned me off lol
