There is so much more to this story that I have not told yet.
It's very painful and horrible.
I have burned the bridges with my wife's family until they apologize to me and hear me out instead of cutting me off because I might tell a fib about Jah.
I'll just ad that that the elder is MY brother in-law.
He immediately broke confidentiality to his wife and her sister. ( my wife's sisters )
Instead of coming to see me and answer my questions, he sent his wife and sister in his place.
I was pushed to a very rare place of outward rage and threw both sisters out of my house with threats of calling the police if they don't ( took ten minutes to make them go )
They took my wife away with them.
My wife came back this morning as if nothing happened and has her own little "go bag" ready so if I mess up, she can leave me.