When I married at the age of 17 to a man twice my age he relayed stories about his ex-wife. One of which was that she only breast fed their daughter because she 'got off' sexually in doing so. This disgusted me and made me feel like breastfeeding on top of sex (because of JW beliefs) was wrong or somehow may be perceived immoral or dirty because you decide to breast feed your child.
He went as far as telling me that this was the reason formula was made so women could not abuse children and themselves because, ?you know, ?self abuse? of course follows when one is done feeding the baby or while doing so?! Many older sisters in the congregation echoed his thoughts and beliefs. I distained the woman (his-ex) after that and any woman I saw breast feeding. How dare her/them! Of course I being the good little sister and wife raised as a JW was naive and brain washed enough to believe this utter sensationalism.
When I had my first child several years later I was afraid and sickened to breast feed because it would be seen as dirty and I may be judged harshly for my choice, until I spoke to the nurse at the hospital who informed me that my beliefs we so off it was not funny. She then explained the dynamics of breast feeding and showed me how. I learned through trial and error how to properly feed my child and then learned that I was wrong about not only his ex-wife but millions of women. I judged far too much as a JW and did so again, this time not even a true JW belief system, just a area belief and that of older or more puritanical adults.
It?s insulting IMO for people to pass on the thoughts or beliefs that women and babies are sexually aroused when they do not know all the facts. It makes a case against breast feeding for the conservative and ultra conservative and this is why I became so incensed, not only at Pete but at my own condemnation of others when I was a teen and those who believe that breast feeding is sexually gratifying even in the tiniest form.
So I guess my point is why pass on things that are not true to have others believe your choice in life are dirty because of a set of beliefs, pressure from society or the sexploitation and sexualizing of the female form even in the most benign setting?
Cassi