As to the title and fishing....
I was absolutely doing so. Why? Because I wanted to know what others had experienced. Was it just me or is this a pattern. To me, and I've been on forums forever, that is the whole purpose of them.
In fact I even posted an edit saying "I changed to more appropriate title". There was no secrecy in the matter. I couldn't have made it more transparent in my mind. I apologize if this comes off troll-ish to you but that wasn't the intent.
Both the pro and con responses here have proven to be helpful. Some excellent points that I hadn't thought of. I will pass them along. At the end of the day I'm here only to assist nothing more.
Everything is entirely up to the copyright holder. I think this thread has been more than constructive. I'll pass along some of the great ideas!