I've been married 14 LONG years to a real S.O.B. and I think I might just take that plunge. I was having a drink at a bar last week with a gal I work with. A guy sitting at the bar started to flirt with me and for the first time in my marriage I flirted back. I'm a hairstylist and the guy asked for my buisness card so that when he needed his haircut he'd come see me. Well he came 2 days later and he likes me I can tell. I don't have a strong attraction for him but then again I haven't had that woozey feeling for any guy since I've been 21 and thats been years ago. Well he called me today and came in again to have me trim his sideburns (it was an excuse) and told me he'd be at this bar if I wanted to stop by. I couldn't get the nerve up and finally several hours later I went but he had already left.
God only knows why I haven't left my husband. Our marriage is crap. This guy knows I'm married and so is he. I think their seperated but not for certain. I kindof like the idea of having a fling with someone where it really wouldn't go anywhere. I'm lonely and tired of the way my life is. I don't want a serious relationship a fling seems to be just the thing! Anyone ever had an affair?