Pretty simple, if you live or move to a country that you pretty much hate, why stay there? If I am not happy in a situation or a place to live, I’ll do my best to get out of there. I don’t understand why you have difficulty grasping this.
If you hated my company and told everyone you dislike being around me, I would think you would stay away from me. If you decided to deal with me with the hope you will change me, good luck.😏