@P.S. Did you know that beleive it or not some are unhappy because they married without being in love in the first place ?(I know of at least two )
Yes, some people marry for the wrong reasons ( includng to fine happiness withoiut knowing what happiness is, much less where or how to find it).
I can't understand the notion of marrying without love but know some that do it, yes.
Sad but it seems to work out for some, thugh not for most.
Sometimes people just get used to being in whatever state they are.
I just thing that it is too much to ask anyone that they make YOU happy, I mean, I would never ask that of my wife, that is too big a request I think.
To put the "burden" of happiness on another is uncalled for I think.
I was a happy person before I met Lisa, she just made me a whole lot happier and we continue to love each other greatly.
We are happy together because our togetherness magnifies our happiness and sure, I am less happy when I am not with her, but I do not need her to make me a happy person.
I think that, if we are honest with ourselves, we will find that our unhappiness in ANYTHING has more to do with US then THEM.