To be honest, I'm not angry at all. I always thought that people who had doubts or turned their back to the borg were angry or bitter. But to me it was lack of requirements for true Christians LOVE.
Example: A couple years back, a young girl was having a sleep over party with pizza, ice cream, movies etc for other 10-12 yr old girls. My neice was invited. An elder asking me if my neice got the invite too (he had two young girls) I said yeah... (That's all my neice could talk about at the time) He said and I quote:
Elder: Im not letting my girls go.
Elder: Just, trust me I wouldn't let your neice go either.
Me: Why, what's the matter?
Me:cool (of course I went home and was wondering why) - Next day I google the family father, mother, kids. Turns out the dad is a registered sex offender. I saw the dude's mug on the Megan's law site
Me: Elder xxxx, why didn't you tell me? Do the other bros. know?
Elder: No, and you can't say anything.
Me: That's not fair, bros. in the know get to protect their kids, while the rest of the friends are in the dark?
Elder: I didn't say anything, and you can't say anything either.
I made the mistake and kept, my mouth shut. (My niece didn't go, my sister and her husband had to go out of town that weekend) So we dodged a bullet. But, I always asked myself: why not tell the friends??? That's not loving at all. Why expose children to this monster.