Kate, you will certainly NOT be safe with JW's.
They are people, good and bad, all individuals, the same as anywhere else. But they themselves are constantly looking over their shoulder, because one of the prime virtues of a Witness is to snitch on their fellows. If they spot someone doing anything frowned on...and "wrong" things may include even something as t rival as wearing jeans that are too tight or too low slung, or coming out of a questionable shop, or just about anything, whether or not it is proved...that doesn't matter...the diligent Witness is constantly on the lookout for a brother or sister falling short of the mark.
Kate, I sent you a PM last night.