I too am little weary of some of the gals who dismiss and minamize what drives marriages apart... We know nothng, really. Its all speculation and guess work, but ive known too many men who tried their all to make it work with women who simply wernt on the same page with them..
Yes. Some men are simply self absorbed ass holes who want to do what they what they want when they want. They are looking for a fling and an ego trip.
But plenty are driven by a need for compainionship and love by cold women who decided they "were no longer in love" or who didnt know what that mean in the first place.. A man is not obligated to spend the rest of his life suffering under the thumb of a coldhearted selfish bitch because he said "i do" when he was 19.
Im not saying hes right or that it was justified, only that some gals are presuming innocence of the poster. We know nothing. What i do know is that happily married men can and are are faithful, to a fault. affairs, emotional or physical, dont happen by accident. There is a cause and, probably, numerous problems. Man bashing isnt the answer.