Little Toe:
I'm still trying to work through some of the guilt issues over failing to succeed at marriage. Hopefully what they say about time healing will prove true...
I am so sorry you are going thru this misery, I had no idea.
When I read that sentence above...tears shot out of my eyes...surprised me. Damn, "guilt issues over failing to succeed at marriage" that was a real heavy for me, too. I had been married 20 years and was SO-O-O deeply in love with my JW wife...it took 4 years of unbelievable carnage, on her part, before in finally murdered any Love I had for her. She lied and drove my 3 daughters away...
I felt as tho' nothing was left inside. I stopped going to meetings...then the family shunning started, too.
However, I have since found someone else...a wonderful woman, who loves me back. We married 6 months ago. The other part about "time healing" things...well, it won't heal some things, but it does help. I can say from experience now...that hole you have in your heart can be filled in with another Love. You can be whole again. You strike me as a kind of man it will happen to. So...give it some time...
I am really glad this thread was brought back, I am so new...I have no idea how many of you 'arrived', I like to know what makes people 'tic'. I would have loved to been there at that meeting...and after -- to see the reaction. Later, Oh...to be a 'fly' on the wall in that next Elders meeting...whew! Can you say...d a m a g e control...?
I'm looking forward to meeting you in Dallas, Ross.