-Instead of looking to humans for the answer, do a lot of prayer and reading the bible, see if you begin to feel his direction.
Prayer and meditation can be fraught with danger as people can be paralyzed with indescison and unable to make a decsion for themselves based on the "facts". For a JW who was used to having his life mapped out for them, having to begin making their own life's decsions can be very hard. Now, telling them to PRAY for DIRECTION, is about the same as telling them to wait on Jehovah- and we know how much good that does for JWs!!!
Maybe a good run at the Quija board will do a person as much good as prayer and statistically I'll bet it does as well as praying. Just how does someone know God is telling them what to do? Can it be proven that people who pray to Jesus make better decisions than atheisits? Do Christians avoid economic problems better than nonreligious people, because they pray and G-d gives them special insight? A valuable question that people should always ask when presented with religious dogma is, "IS THIS FACT OR OPINION"? The failure to discern the difference is what kept them in the KH in the first place. is