shoes
chocolate
orgasms
.....that too, Although not necessarily in that order. 
Men - Do You Know What Women Really Want in a Relationship ?
by flipper 89 Replies latest jw friends
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Tatiana
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R.Crusoe
JeffT you are so right but you forgot all the pampering!
Never to work unless it feels like play and to get regular services for hair, nails , body massages, fine retaurants, gifts , cars, and multi optional extensions of males with rock hard body definition in a range of colours according to mood and what colour of shoes they are wearing!
The chocolate goes with the territory!
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berylblue
To kill a man's dreams, reject his ideas and shoot him down in flames. To eat up his time and occupy space in his life not because she loves him, but because she can't stand the thought that another woman might love him and find value in him if she were not there.
Your mileage may vary.I certainly pray others' do. How sad.
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berylblue
I want some friggin' honesty - if you're having an affair, tell me. If you think I'm ugly, tell me that too. If you are having medical problems, please be honest and don't let me think for a year that you're having an affair or I'm ugly. And please don't tell me "you're just stressed out". Who the hell ISN'T stressed out?
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R.Crusoe
Who can relate to this?
Women in my life : is like being an ex JW!
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FlyingHighNow
I get nothing - not even the lyrics .Flying - it doesn't play - But I'm sure your thoughts were very comforting.
I posted the lyrics. I can't find the song on You Tube. I'll go look again. It's a very good point that she makes in the song.Hey, Beryl, I know what you mean about the medical problem issue. My second husband developed depression over a bankruptcy. Then he allowed me to think his sudden and lack of interest in sex was my fault. I've talked to several women who have been cut off this way. I think men that experience problems like that don't always understand what's going on and they blame anything and even you. Hopefully it all gets figured out before so much damage is done that the relationship if forever broken. It's a myth that's it's always us ladies who cut things off. Following are the lyrics I posted for you:
Carly Simon THE STUFF THAT DREAMS ARE MADE OF lyrics
(Carly Simon)
Take a look around now
Change the direction
Adjust the tuning
Try a new translation
Don't look at your man in the same old way
Take a new picture
Just because you don't see shooting stars
Doesn't mean it isn't perfect
can't you see...
It's the stuff that dreams are made of
It's the slow and steady fire
It's the stuff that dreams are made of
It's your heart and soul's desire
It's the stuff that dreams are made of
So what's this about your best friend?
She's got a brand new shiny boy
And they're moving out to Malibu
To play with all his pretty toys
And you feel closed in by the same four walls
The same old conversation
With the same old guy you've know for years
But use your imagination
And you will see....
It's the stuff that dreams are made of
It's the slow and steady fire
It's the stuff that dreams are made of
It's your heart and soul's desire
It's the stuff that dreams are made of
What if the Prince on the horse in your fairytale
Is right here in disguise
And what if the stars you've been reaching so high for
Are shining in his eyes
Don't look at yourself in the same old way
Take another picture
Shoot the stars off in your own backyard
Don't look any further
And you will see
It's the stuff that dreams are made of....Carly Simon THE STUFF THAT DREAMS ARE MADE OF lyrics
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FlyingHighNow
For the men who read this thread:
I feel bad for you that things have not turned out well for you and the women in your lives. I know from personal experience that things can go well. It really isn't so hard for us all to get along, as long as we choose as partners people we can communicate with and respect. Don't listen to the Men are from Mars/Women are from Venus guy. He was a Catholic priest. What the heck did he know? He just sold a lot of books telling more simplistic type people what to think and even what they wanted to hear.
I love you guys. Love you.
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R.Crusoe
Mrs Jones cracks me up!
FHN you are a deeply understanding person and I listen to you as well!
I don't think I'm having a go at the people but at the problem!
For some reason from childhood each sex is conditioned to subliminally collect stereotypical nuances which they automatically attach to their own character and then find in adulthood it drives them apart - which is partly why I think relationships for quite young people are good for them long term - meaningful quality time with the opposite sex and even romance!