Sometimes they can say the most stupid things, unloving and so blind.
I can remember back in the mid 80's at a district assembly some ol bethel codger said,
now you single sister will have to get used to being without a mate for eternity because there will not be enough brothers to go around, and think about the angles they don't marry .....so in other words get over it, and the way he said it, was cold heartless and sounded like a women hater, my sister started crying, as she was just widowed and you know the resurrected don't marry, she was devestated.
There was a huge sigh in the audience and bethel ran hot for days and days, sisters phoning up, they said not to take any notice of it, that it was just a test of their integity.
Just disgusting, imagine you dedicated you're youth as a sister to pioneering, dreaming one day of marriage and having children, now in you're late or mid fifties and no hope of ever having a family.
How loving is that....