My Andy was in a bad car accident~

by FlyingHighNow 471 Replies latest members private

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow
    FHN

    Hearing this bit of news broke my heart. You've been around here a long time, I have faith in your character and I enjoy you as a person on this board. I know giving isn't something for everyone can do (esp newbies), but I hope those who have known you will consider dropping you a small bit of help via paypal. Giving someone hope is a good cause.

    (((((((HUG))))))))

    bebu

    Thank you, Bebu. I have been here a while. And JWd has helped me in tremendous ways. I have grown so much here. If people do want to help, they can PM me. I will tell them what they need to know. Or if they PM you, you can tell them. If they need my e-mail address or mailing address, I can give it to them. I am very grateful to those who have offered emotional and spiritual support. And for those who have sent PMs and those who have asked how to assist financially, thank you immensely.

    Thank you, Jeff for the phone call. It was good speaking to someone I've known only through posts. Rabbit, we'll have to talk.

    I am going to try not to think about my job and what to do about my upcoming schedule. It's making me feel upset. I think I'll grab a Pabst or something and get to sleep. And I rarely have a beer.

    Sunspot, what can I say? Your post is wonderful. Hugs and thank you. I need to hear this. We all need to hear it.

  • avishai
    avishai

    Oh no.......

    You have a pm.

  • dobbie
    dobbie

    FHN i just saw this, i'm so sorry for all you are going through, i know it has been said before but you really are an special person. I hope that Andy makes a full recovery and that you can keep hold of your dear little grandson for all your sakes, i bet it would eat you all up to have to lose him, what a terrible time for you all. Please try and take little steps, take one day at a time at the moment, it is still soon after the accident and you don't know what's round the corner. Force yourself to eat, i know you probably don't want to but it will help you physically to carry on, and emotionally with looking after everyone. I'm sending you lots of positive thoughts your way that you have the best outcome to all this for you, and lots of hugs. Debbie x

  • bernadette
    bernadette

    FHN hugs to you. thinking of you and the distressing situation you are in. Sendingyour way

    bernadette

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    Sleepy hello. Today is Mick's day off from KG. He's still asleep. I'm going to go relax and try to sleep until he wakes up. I am exhausted. Thank you everyone. See you later.

  • unique1
    unique1

    I am so sorry to hear about the accident and the situation it puts you all in. Just remember this is temporary. It is stressful now, but it is temporary. I too suffer from anxiety and panic attacks. I have discovered that repeated positive reminders help. You may have to repeat it to yourself 100 times but it will work because eventually you will believe it.

    I know it feels like a step down, but you could always visit a food bank for the next few weeks for free groceries for you and the kids. That would probably save you $70 a week until Andy recovers. Every little bit helps, if it helps you keep the kids together.

    You can also go to your local health food/vitamin store and pick up some passion flower extract. When you are getting panic'd put 15-30 drops in water and you will be relaxed in 5 - 10 minutes. I swear by the stuff. It isn't very expensive either.

    I will keep you and your family in my prayers for what it is worth. Hang in there.

  • BluesBrother
    BluesBrother

    Just found your thread FHN... hoping that things may be easing out now..

    Blues

  • Crumpet
    Crumpet

    FHN!! i am just catching up with this story - so sad and it will be tragic if you lose the youngest to foster care. Its not very much but I have recently stopped donating to two conservation charities because of the criminal waste of paper they kept sending me. I would be very pleased if you would let me make this a monthly payment to your account until things improve.

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    I can't believe it. I just found out I may not be granted a personal leave. I may be forced to quit my job. I am trying not to freak out. This is the most overwhelming thing I have been through. I am in shock.

  • Sunspot
    Sunspot
    I can't believe it. I just found out I may not be granted a personal leave. I may be forced to quit my job. I am trying not to freak out. This is the most overwhelming thing I have been through. I am in shock.

    Oh......Sweetie....I have a lot of unused curse words that I haven't even thought of in a very long time......and I am thinking them ALL right now!

    I am SO sorry to hear that you haven't gotten very encouraging news from your employer.

    ((((((((FHN))))))))

    Annie

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