My Andy was in a bad car accident~

by FlyingHighNow 471 Replies latest members private

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  Crumpet

  Thank you for keeping us updated. We're all thinking of you.
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  lonelysheep

  (((((((((((FHN))))))))))))
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  bebu

  Thanks for the update, Flying (and the pm). I wish we could add a few more hours to your day--so you could do all you need, and then take a nap as well!

  Have you asked folks at your church for practical help? Sounds like there is one mom who has been able to help you out a little with the boys. Talk again to the church secretary or talk with the pastor. They can do the asking for you and get back, if you tell them what you think you need.

  DON'T forget to call Jo. She wants to talk with you. She's at home all week (off work) I understand.

  bebu
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  FlyingHighNow

  Today has been one of the more heartbreaking and stressful of this whole ordeal. I can't explain all of it. I am too tired and some of it has to be kept private. I had to call off work tonight because I had no sitter and I was really too upset to be working anyway. I hope I can get this leave in place before they end up firing me. I am always conscientious about my jobs. It's hard to appear so unreliable. Of course it isn't fair how they are treating this either.

  I can use all the kind words and prayers you can give. I'm devastated and overwhelmed. I am heartbroken for Andy and for the boys.

  Thank you all also for your kind gifts to help us. Since I could possibly lose my job, money is obviously a worrisome concern. You are helping to relieve some of that stress and fear.

  Love to all of you from all of us.
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  FlyingHighNow

  Good morning. I thought I'd say hello. I visited with Andy yesterday. He had a very hard day. He was supposed to go with his Dad to look at his car, but he developed horrible anxiety over it. I felt so bad for him. We are trying to get all the insurance worked out on Tuesday. It's stressful because the policy wasn't written properly and there is some question as to whether they will cover the car. So, all the paperwork is left to me and my agent, rather than Andy and my agent.

  I called off work last night. I am going to have to call off again tonight because I don't have a sitter. I am going to try to enjoy the weekend and not let myself spiral into fear over losing the job before the leave comes through. If they do try to get me to quit, I'll stand my ground over the leave and perhaps I will have to file for unemployment. I don't know if I can get it, but it's worth a shot.

  Thank you all for your support in the way of your posts to this thread, PM's, phone calls and monetary support. I can still use your help in all these ways. And please know that your help is very welcomed and appreciated.

  Love, Heather, Andy and the boys
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  FlyingHighNow

  Please don't forget me. It's very lonely here without Andy. I do have the boys, but it's not the same as having Andy or friends around. The boys have a Ukranian friend over. I am playing Austin Powers wavs for them and they are dancing around the LR, being silly. Gotta love spy music. Espionage by Green Day and of course Soul Bossa Nova.
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  horrible life

  Soul Bossa Nova?? the only bossa nova I know, is by Elvis. And he did have Soul. I can just picture the boys dancing with their friend. Quick, put up the breakables. LOL Glad you can sit back and smile for a few minutes. You will get through this, keep a positive attitude, I know everything isn't sunny, but things will get better. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  Sad emo

  Hi Heather - i haven't been online for a few days but want you to know I'm still keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers

  (((Heather, Andy and boys)))
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  FlyingHighNow

  I'm off to St. Mark's. I'll be home later and come by. Peace to you all and thank you from all of us.
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  FlyingHighNow

  Church was beautiful, the celebration of pentecost, but emotionally hard because of Andy's absence. I still face possible job loss and have until June 23rd to decide what I will do about Mickey, which is very hard to face. I have no friends right in town who can come over to comfort me. I did get comfort at church and some hugs, but most of them live pretty far away.

  This is an ongoing ordeal and I will continue to need comfort from you here. As I have said, I cannot share all the details here in public. There are some more very profound things going on which I have shared with some of you through PM. Please do keep offering your love and comfort. This all very overwhelming. I'm also feeling very lonely.