Hi (((((((((((((Brenda)))))))))))))) & ((((((((((((((((Kevan))))))))))))))),
I got to learn of this thread from Marjorie, whose e-mail awaited me this morning. I don't have to tell you how desperately sorry Claire & I are to learn of your sad news, but we took immense comfort from your saying this:
And they are both out of pain and in peace and with the "Universe".
How true! Yes, they will both now know the folly of following Watchtower - and I have no doubt that if they were able they'd hug you till you were soaked in tears and tell you how sorry they were and to say "carry on" the way you are going, hold fast to Kevan, be happy and show up the organisation for what it is!
Claire and I are most fortunate to have met you and Kevan in person. We know EXACTLY what a kind, loving and considerate person you are - which always shines forth in your posts here. PLEASE, Brenda, bite your tongue as much as you can. You are above the level of victimisation you have been shown by your family. Let your actions demonstrate that it is YOU who has "Christ", "Buddha" "the Tao" "Universe" in your heart. By all means let your family know you are disgusted by their actions - but also let them know you don't blame them but those ultimately responsible: those evil leaders in Brooklyn! Remember Christ's words: "Forgive them for they know not what they do!"
Those words apply now because Watchtower is so good at brainwashing its followers. Your family's actions are disgraceful - but that's what happens when one belongs to a cult. You, me and the majority here are fortunate in that we saw through it all. It has taken many of us years and the pain has been excruciating - often still is. Families torn apart regularly. They need forgivness!
I'm saying all this because we love you. You are a fundamental asset here - a walking example of love and kindness in action.
May you find peace now and the joy of knowing that your friends genuinely care and love you!
All our love, (((((((hugs)))))))) and best wishes,
Ian& Claire
