Mom Died -- and I found out from an old friend! (page 4)

crazyblondeb

Brenda-

I'm sorry you lost your mom, and found out like you did. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers!!

Big Hug Sad

shelley

BrendaCloutier

Email I sent to my sister:

I heard from Sheli by email. I wish I could have heard it from a family member. Please let me know the details. And especially when the service will be.

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Email I received from my sister:

I'm so sorry Brenda. We have all been so upset. Mom had a heart
attack about a month ago. She was staying with Feezer and Mary as
their house is all on one floor and they have extra bedrooms and
bathrooms. We thought she was doing better and off and on she really
was. They had trouble trying to regulate her medications and that made
her sick too. The heart attack did much damage to her heart and also
her kidneys. She had to go back into the hospital 2 more times after
the initial hospital stay, but the last time she didn't come home. It
was all quite sudden and we thought we had a lot more time with her.

At her request, we aren't going to have a memorial service and to tell
you the truth, I'm not too sure I would even be able to go myself. I
am not handling this the best, but hopefully it will get easier in time.
Darlene

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My response. Thank goddess a close friend (a true friend) just called and stopped me from saying much more at this time.

you should have let me know about her health. i am frustrated and angry. dammit! I should not have had to hear it from a non-family member. I have plenty more to say, but I will likely regret it if I do.

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BrendaCloutier

And when this dies down, I will have a scathing letter I will send to all family members denoucing them and their religion.

xjwms

Brenda

So sorry for you..... to bad you did'nt have more time with your mom.

The last little bit of time I had when my dad was passing was quality.

He confirmed so many things about his experience with the loving ORG, I swear I'll never be a part of it again.

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Annie Over

Brenda I am so sad for you and sorry that your Mom died. It seems that most people who

call themsleves JWs are incredibly hard hearted People. (((((((((Brenda)))))))))

BrendaCloutier

the latest installment.

Response from my "sister":

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And my lovely polite response to her:

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Every member of my so called "family" will receive a flaming letter from me, outlining my resentments and anger, and the NWT reference , I'll use their own bible against them.

I can't believe I didn't swear in that. much more effective.

ZazuWitts

Brenda, I'm so very sorry for you. Much love sent your way. Zasu

mouthy

(((((((((Brenda)))))))) I too must express my sympathy.... All this is not done in a corner .I believe MY God has seen the LOVING WAY! ( NOT) done by folks who consider they are Gods Chosen ((((HUGS))))

JH

(((((Brenda)))))

SB

oh my god (or rather lack of)...there is no excuse...no excuse. whatever youre feeling, remember youre a victim of a very abusive group, and this treatment is one of the lasting effects. be proud of yourself for reaching out for emotional support. oh, i'm going to cry for you, i better stop typing...

SB.

Mom Died -- and I found out from an old friend!

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