Dave, you wrote, "Honestly, think about it. What you're saying is that the smart people in your life would think you were making a bad move if you involved yourself with JW's."
Actually, I don't have all that much confidence in any spiritual advice I might get from my colleagues. Most of them either are atheists, agnostics, or are going through the motions of another convenient religion. To them, humankind is the ultimate arbiter of all things. I believe Jehovah is the ultimate arbiter of all things. That major difference means that they wouldn't understand where I'm coming from at all. I'd bet my next three paychecks that none of them know that much about the Witnesses, yet they'd condemn them based solely on hearsay or by the fact that they seem like kooks for going door to door. At least you guys have specific reasons for what you think of the Witnesses; many people don't have a clue, yet they still condemn them.
You raise some good points. Going to an anti-religious person for religious advice might not do the job for you. (But don't write us atheists off entirely, we can still 'reason from the scriptures' in ways that can be helpful.) And you're very right that your colleagues probably have an uninformed prejudice against JW's.
I will probably get flamed or banned for writing this, but I had some pretty strong feelings when I read this.
Actually, let this be another thing for you to consider. You won't get banned for stating your views here (though you need to do so respectfully, which you have done). What if I (as a person disfellowshipped for apostasy) went to a Kingdom Hall and started sharing MY views? Though offered respectfully, I would surely be shown the door, and helped to find it if I seemed to be having trouble. Always be wary of anyone that say, "Don't listen to them." It's bad enough to say, "Don't believe them", but to say, "don't listen"? Gives a person pause.
To all, the one concern I have about not joining the Witnesses is not being able to fulfill the requirement for witnessing unless I join. I certainly won't go door to door on my own, so how will I do it? How do you guys do it?
There is considerable evidence that the first century Christians did NOT go door to door, searching for converts. I know that's hard to buy, but the JW's do a good job of chaining a few unrelated scriptures together and making it appear that this canvassing work is a command. I don't have the knowledge to back this one up, but there was a thread on it recently. Hopefully somebody can post a link?
I'm concerned about not joining because I'm just not sure how I would fulfill some of these things without joining an organization, and I don't really agree with any other religion I've explored (I don't believe in the major doctrines of the Trinity, Hellfire, Immortality of the soul, etc.).
It's the "to whom shall we go away, you have the saying of everlasting life" problem. Even if the apostles didn't understand everything Jesus said, they had to stay with him. He was "the one". But do JW's really fall into that same category? Research their doctrines for yourself (without their "help") and see if you really think they have "the truth".
Take care, and thanks for continuing to discuss the issue!
Dave