Its still raining it appears in my life.. But I guess I see a small amount of sunshine with this last bit of rain.. You see I guess I will finally be free.. An old contact, someone I used to call one of my best friends, whom I wrote an email to a yr and a half ago, explaining to her that I was taking a break from my JW activities.. (which I also sent to my mother, and two other close friends at the time) has recently contacted the JW I work with. Originally when I wrote the letters, I had asked them not to tell her, to let me tell her. I had every intention of being honest with her, just as I had my mother and other three friends, but this friend I am referring to above, had sent me the most vicious, hateful reply, telling me to go shoot my head off or slit my wrists, and after that, I decided I couldn't handle another reply like that.. so I never told my JW co worker..
She was the one who had gotten me my job in California and I work with her every day, sitting only feet away. I knew eventually she would find out, but I put it off. So I celebrated holidays privately at home, not in front of her, never brought in a picture for my desk of my boyfriend or mentioned I was no longer attending meetings.
I also turned down lunches here at work with her.. as well as one to come have dinner at their home. I knew if I took those invitations and later she found out I wasn't a practiciting JW any more, she might be offended of my deception. So instead I guess I stopped all social contact the most I could out of respect for her.
Any way, this JW I work with, now that she is aware of my situation, who knows I wasn't scripturally free to date, as well as found out I have posted here, has given me the ultimatum to call my old PO or she will.
I told her she was forcing my hand to DA myself because I wasn't ready to go back.
so.. I guess I am going to write my DA letter.. one last thing and then there is nothing left except the scars...
I really don't want this to be an anxiety attacking episode for me. I want it easy and clean. Can I just write to say remove my publisher card from your files. I no longer wish to be considered one of JWs?