If you are in a relationship with a JW you will find that you are not alone. The links here will take you to other stories of people who have been in a situation simialr to your.
You may have met your love while they were not active/involved. But unless they realize the truth about the WTS as a cult there is the risk they will go back. And your life will never be the same. Sadly if they do go back you and the love you share will be considered the enemy - an enemy of God.
If your love is still a JW who is leading a double life expect that you will never come first. You will be a hidden secret and if the family or JWs find out you will be demonized. Even if you decide to convert and give up everything you know for this person you will never come first. It just is not allowed.
Read their stories, tread cautiously and be wise in your choices. But also read the responses of others who have walked in your shoes.
A Million Questions http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/18/74307/1.ashx
Help me understand "Boy meets Worldly Girl"
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/63053/1.ashx
I could REALLY use some help right now....
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/7/76192/1.ashx
IN LOVE & CONFUSED
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/20/74023/1.ashx
Liberated
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/20/72161/1.ashx
Losing my marriage because of this twisted belief.
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/7/76637/1.ashx
My gf is a jw
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/20/20847/1.ashx
Who Is Your Brother?