"Worldy" girfriend or JW girlfriend... Help me choose...

by Confucious 80 Replies latest jw friends

  • Confucious
    Confucious

    Hey guys,

    Alrighty. Enjoying being single.

    Right now I have a "worldy" girlfriend (note the quotes " ").

    But there's this incredibly beautiful JW girl that has shown interest in me.

    (I'm not DF or DA, just not going to meetings. So I swing both ways :-)

    Ok. My marriage was a disaster when the elders got into my business when I was drawing away from the borg.

    So I'm not sure if I should gamble and go after this JW girl (and she is hot - although my current girlfriend is also pretty.)

    I really like this JW girl.

    What do you think I should do???

  • flower
    flower

    depends. do you want a relationship? a future together? then obviously a relationship with a jw is futility ....or stupidity.

  • Valis
    Valis

    worldly!

  • blondie
    blondie

    Is this a question?????

    If you want to be a JW again....

    If not......

    Blondie

  • joannadandy
    joannadandy

    So let me get this straight--you have a relationship going right now with the girl...but you would break up with her for a "hotter" girl who wouldn't put out or have anything to do with you unless you conform to her standards? (Do I even have to mention she'll never slurp the turkey?)

    Seems like no contest, and kinda heartless to the current gf....(unless I misunderstood and you are not dating either...in which case my bad, but still NO CONTEST!)

  • Confucious
    Confucious

    For the record, I'm wanting to get married again...

  • Confucious
    Confucious

    Jo,

    This is a serious question.

    I mean, I'm "getting it" from my current girlfriend.

    This JW girl is 21 and a virgin. She is very very pretty.

    It's a legit question.

  • Valis
    Valis

    ah shit...21 and a virgin and a JW girl? good luck dude...I hope you are ready to go to the meetings and get baptized and spend lots of time with her beofre you get married before you even know if you are sexually compatible with her. Maybe you don't think that is important, but I would argue differently. If you just want to procreate and have no fun in the sack for the rest of your life go for it.....otherwise find a nice worldly girl and take a test drive before you commit to something that might just make you a sexually frustrated and deprived individual in the future. Maybe this sounds crude or even too naughty for your eyes, but I guarantee, if she is a dyed in the wool JW, that is exactly wht you will never get to see till you become a good dub....*LOL*

    Sincerely,

    District Overbeer

  • joannadandy
    joannadandy

    I know confu...and that was my serious response.

    I think it's pretty crappy to end a realationship you have with someone to test the waters with someone else who as I said before (and Valis so nicely pointed out) would totally control your life...you really want to go back to that?

    Can I ask, was your first wife a JW?

  • Satanus
    Satanus

    Is this your hormones talking? Please redial when brain kicks in. Sorry, but you must realise where your question is coming from. Or, do you like things that are hard to get? Do you like hitting your head against a wall over and over? You wouldn't be the first one.

    SS

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