liberated

by prgirl79 4 Replies latest social relationships

  • prgirl79
    prgirl79

    HI Everyone,

    I sent a post over a month ago about my failed relationship with an ex jw. A little refresher we dated for 5 years and although he is disfellowshipped he never moved on. He still lives at home with his jw parents. After 5 years of no compromise and feeling like i was getting nowhere it was time for me to move on. It still hurts, but i am slowly feeling better. Time does make a difference. Two weeks ago he emails me. Guess it reaffirms for me why i left. I am feeling liberated from this. He would say i would leave him get tired of this feel free, and resent him. Well he was right i feel free no more of his JW crap. i felt totally unappreciated he told his cousin we were on a break. he thought i would come back. He never made friends because hey you can whine to me well now he has no one to whine to. I was tired of him calling me and sometimes being nasty if i was out because JW's are at HIS PARENTS house. I was tired of never having him there for my wedding, funerals, birthdays, thanksgiving. How is this a relationship where it's his way or no way. He was working at the gym i go to but they finally transferred him. I am thakful for websites like this it really helps!! I want to thank everyone who responded to me for your support and encouragement

  • calamityjane
    calamityjane

    Nice to hear from ya, glad to know your moving on.

    cj

  • Nosferatu
    Nosferatu

    5 years is quite a long time to be dating someone. It'll take a bit of time, but things will keep getting better. Glad to hear you're doing well!

  • True North
    True North

    Five years is a lot to lose but ten or fifteen or more would be worse. It was a good move for you to cut your losses and start considering your own needs. Take care.

  • Maverick
    Maverick

    Thank you for the update. Enjoy our freedom. Maverick

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