You are absolutely right undercover, I agree.
I am just saying being down on him, was pointless as he'd already done it, and he was just sharing a moment in his life with us.
If he didn't know the gal, (or guy) if he didn't use protection, blah blah blah, I agree, it would be a stupid and dangerous thing to do.
Assumptions could go both ways, is all I am saying.